"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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They don't even know my name but ignore me.

jebach987

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Couple girls in the school I like, they are all my type I'm their type.
I'm new to this school, I've moved to Germany a year ago and been speaking this language for a year now and speak really good for a year.
And now the girls, every girl seems to ignore me somehow, I really can't just approach them how I would if it was my native language and that's the problem. Girl stares at me wholee ****ing day and I walk by say "hi" she ignores. I nexted that one because I have no time for those "average but playing hard to get" bitches...
But this one girl somehow just avoids eye contact with me even though she will check me out here and there. We've never spoken before and it is just ****ed uuup..
Why would they do that? And wouldn't they approach me because I'm new here?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Roober

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JUST

GO

TALK

TO

THEM!

If something doesn't work, try it differently next time...
 

Dan Bautista

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Follow the same principle you followed with the first girl. Contact and evaluate.
 

Chamber36

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You sure they are eyeing you in a positive way and not in a negative way??

Where are you from by the way what is your origin?
 
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