I know we as DJ's are supposed to call HB's but I sometimes want them to call me you know show some sort of assertiveness. But i don't know I do everything else right until i call them for the first time. Basically how do i get these chcks to think about me enought to call me other than to return my phone call?
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
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They Don't Call....
- Thread starter Rawone04
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
this is kinda difficult. but anyway it depends what kinda babe are they. if they're innocent and shy, it's best to call them because they'll sense ur the type of guy to take charge and take care of things. as for hot babes that goes out and knows how to have fun. my best method to get reach of them would probably be text msging them because 1. it's fun 2. they'll reply 3. it takes up no time at all. 4. it leads up to creative replies, witty, wutnot. it works. well, for the most part 
Phoenix_of_the_ashes
Master Don Juan
Women arent used to and not very able to take initiative, if you force initiative on them they will generally **** it up.
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Alpine
Master Don Juan
They will call, once you start getting your game right.
Don Juanabbe
Master Don Juan
Yep. I get calls from women frequently. I'm getting better and better at this. I even had one give me a fake number, but I had also given her my number. 4 days later she phoned me from her real number. Weird.
Basically I used to be a good-looking AFC. Now I'm good looking with a bit of game and the I'm the prize attitude, and I'm starting to get better success.
The looks thing definitely makes things easier.
Nightspark
Senior Don Juan
if they dont call u then there is a possibility that their interest level isn't high, it also works vice versa, you could have a low IL girl call you and she'll just do that to make herself feel better (remember that outcome will only happen if u let it so!).
but yeah there are far better ways to see if she has a high IL and that's call her up, take her out on a date and make a move and observe what happens
anyways girls calling is ok from time to time... BUT it seriously is a b*tch when they call everysingle day and u cbf talking to them.... so Rawone04 dont bother tryna look for that girl who keeps calling, because u'll get annoyed by it..!
Nightspark
but yeah there are far better ways to see if she has a high IL and that's call her up, take her out on a date and make a move and observe what happens
anyways girls calling is ok from time to time... BUT it seriously is a b*tch when they call everysingle day and u cbf talking to them.... so Rawone04 dont bother tryna look for that girl who keeps calling, because u'll get annoyed by it..!
Nightspark
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
if a girl has a high IL they will call you. But just cause they dont call you, dont take it as a sign of disinterest. Usually most girls will wait for the guy to take initiative and make the call.
girls seem to have a higher fear of rejection that guys do, apparently, which is why they wont put themselves on the line.
dont wait too long to make the call or tehy'll lose interest or think ur not interested.
girls seem to have a higher fear of rejection that guys do, apparently, which is why they wont put themselves on the line.
dont wait too long to make the call or tehy'll lose interest or think ur not interested.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
if you're going out enough and you're calling enough girls it'll seem a bit more like a job then a hobby. Most people don't take a job as seriously as a hobby so the stress is taken off and this will be detectable in your voice.
When they don't hear the stress it makes you sound indifferent which usually results in girls persuing, If you show low enough interest they get curious and will fall into your web of deception.
When they don't hear the stress it makes you sound indifferent which usually results in girls persuing, If you show low enough interest they get curious and will fall into your web of deception.
skinnydart
Master Don Juan
Yeah, it's wierd, I have the same problem. They all call me back immediatly after seeing my missed call, but will never call me just to call me.
The one time this one girl did call me she was like "Hey, I'm so sorry to bother you, I know you're probably busy or at work or something (It was like 8 pm, don't know why she thought that), but I just had a question about that quiz tomorrow..." or sometimes she'll say "o are you busy now, I can call back later..."
And she even told me in person on one of our dates that she felt bad calling me because she thinks she's bothering/irritating me. I'm like WTF?! I want a girl to call me for once!
The one time this one girl did call me she was like "Hey, I'm so sorry to bother you, I know you're probably busy or at work or something (It was like 8 pm, don't know why she thought that), but I just had a question about that quiz tomorrow..." or sometimes she'll say "o are you busy now, I can call back later..."
And she even told me in person on one of our dates that she felt bad calling me because she thinks she's bothering/irritating me. I'm like WTF?! I want a girl to call me for once!
RiceHapa888
Don Juan
my girl just called me today- actually just now to say hi- it was amazing! she barely ever calls
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