"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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They Come In Rounds

lebRambo

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Phone numbers!

You all know the score. You hit up the bars, uni cafeterias, libraries etc. for some worthwhile tail, and you get a whole bunch of numbers. They all come in rounds. Get three or four here, try them out, and then a couple of weeks later after your first round of numbers have gone stale, you get another round of numbers and try your luck again.

I've noticed a little problem with my game:

I have no problem getting numbers (hell, getting a number is ridiculously easy if your confident) but I hardly ever get a second day from a club pickup (better success rate from uni pickups). I think this is probably from a lack of GOOD kino and me bailing out of the set and getting the number too early before any rapport is established. This is probably my worst enemy. Persistence is a motherf*cker to get down when sarging. Some days you feel like it, and others you don't.

any hints on how to work out when its time to bail on a set? any comments about similar experiences?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So pimp its scary

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A problem with your game might be waiting a few weeks to call the numbers...

In my experience, getting 10 numbers will get you somewhere with maybe 1 or 2 of the girls.
 

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I think it's simpy because they are club pickups. Girls at clubs, while they are sluts, have massive social *****-shields up. Also, you can't really talk at a club, so that basically destroys all of our game. Club pickups are hard as hell, unless you look like brad pitt. (or the girl looks like whoopi goldberg, lol).

And also, girs that are at a club are sluts. Now that's not to say that on a university campus the girl may not be the nicest girl in the world, but when they dress up to go to a club, their attiude, their conversation, their demeanor changes into: SlutVille!
 

lebRambo

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Originally posted by So pimp its scary
A problem with your game might be waiting a few weeks to call the numbers...

In my experience, getting 10 numbers will get you somewhere with maybe 1 or 2 of the girls.
no no, i call after about 3 or 4 days usually.
 
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