"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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They are right, once they open their legs they lose half of their value

Who Dares Win

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There is a lot of truth in that old tactic of women which suggests them not to give sex to a guy before he commits.

Yesterday I could have take a girl home and bang her for the third time but instead I simply didnt want to stay awake and went to sleep.

I approached this girl weeks ago( hardly I approach any girl which I dont consider at least a 7) and she made it clear she was not interested in me,she even told me that she wanted to spend the night with somebody else and dance with other guys.

Then after not paying attention to her the following nights we met (not as a punishment but as a intelligent thing to do while dealing with an uninterested girl) she slowly started to say hi then some small talk, untill one day I first got head from her than I banged her.

After that I banged her some other times but more as an alternative to an hand job more than genuine desire, she not only answer texts fast but sometime she also take initiative yet Im not willing to do a single step to meet her, we meet only when we attend the same club.

I can recall the same thing happening with at least two other girls recently, all girls which I would even got a bus to meet before banging them.

Probably guys lose interest after sex as much as girls lose interest after finding out that a guy is under their control emotionally.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Think about this scenario:


Let's say you went out to bars, clubs, etc, and had women APPROACHING you and asking you straight up for sex. Wouldn't you find sex much less desirable?

We LOVE the fact that we have to chase women and it is difficult. If it weren't, sex wouldn't mean shyt and the tables would be turned.
 

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Before my girlfriend, I maxed out my game Just until I penetrated them. As soon as you get you D in, you win, and they are hooked.

This one girl wouldn't see me for 2 months, always flaking and stuff, I just persisted - we meet, we fvcked, and then I started not to care. What happened?
- she went compeltly 180, and initiates everything from that day, I could just lean back from there (obviously, because I didn't care about loosing her).
 

HalfPUAHalfAFC

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skinnyguy said:
We LOVE the fact that we have to chase women and it is difficult. If it weren't, sex wouldn't mean shyt and the tables would be turned.
Speak for yourself
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I agree with the above. Once I've banged her my interest level usually drops. It's up to her at that point to keep it elevated.
 

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no problem man let all the girls come and ask for sex everytime. ill still appreciate sex and consider it desirable believe me bro
 

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skinnyguy said:
Think about this scenario:


Let's say you went out to bars, clubs, etc, and had women APPROACHING you and asking you straight up for sex. Wouldn't you find sex much less desirable?
Nah, I'd be fine with that!
 

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I get that once you bang a chick you usually lose a lot of the desire to get with her again. But I think a lot of this is due to the fact that her body and sex with her wasn't as good as you'd want it to be. If her body was just really hot, her pvssy tight and juicy and she was wild in bed, you'd want to hit it again for sure.

Even after you bang a girl good once even a couple times, there's no guarantee that she'll want to bang again whenever you want with no hoops to jump through.

Myself, I don't mind a very brief period of small talk and hanging out before having sex, but I like to have a feeling that it's on the whole time. I get no enjoyment or see any value in the chase.
 

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It only appears so because none of those girls has any value other than sexual.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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jay07

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skinnyguy said:
Think about this scenario:


Let's say you went out to bars, clubs, etc, and had women APPROACHING you and asking you straight up for sex. Wouldn't you find sex much less desirable?

We LOVE the fact that we have to chase women and it is difficult. If it weren't, sex wouldn't mean shyt and the tables would be turned.
This post is spot on. Some of the guys saying "hell ya id say lets gooo" are telling the truth. But either do not know the difference between achieving the pvssy or are attracted to slvts, like myself. I love girls who are dtf asap, but i also dont want anything to do with them after sex.

I love the chase. If a girl im talking to makes it to easy. I lose interest, fast. If i bag her and she doesnt act needy, i try again. I become more interested.
 

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looks like i am alone with my opinion then :) but i will explain it nonetheless.
for me, if a girl INITIATES sex too soon, she loses half her value. if she plays hard to get, she will lose ALL her value. fast.
i like girls who like me back, so mostly i like those who don't initiate, but they are making it easy for me to take charge.
if you must chase a girl to get her, she isn't worth the chase. of course, hunting is fun, but i would never consider LTR with a girl who plays hard to get. it's just too mush hassle. for me, a girl's hard to get tactics are sure way to pump and dump.
keeping a woman is harder than to get them. so if must chase a long way to get them, it would be even more od a PITA to keep them. i don't need the drama. i keep it simple. fighting for a relationship is not simple.
 

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DJ Theorem #4


The PPRF Paradox

T = (A/10 + 1/X) * 12

Where:

T = Length of Relationship
A = Male Interest Level
X = Female Interest Level
 
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