"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TheVampSlayer

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First, I should have posted this in the High School Forum but that rarely gets traffic.

I was in camp last week, 3 days, 2 nights. It was math camp(actually competition, but it was a camp too) and I was the best there, I even have participated in international competitions. I had my eyes set on a girl that I had known for a few years, and she had given me IOIs before. She was very *****y so I channelled my inner DJ and got rid of oneitis. The second day of camp after the second test we had some activities, and I was voted team leader giving me high social status. I noticed another girl that was pretty (and shy) and started being ****y-funny. It worked wonders, especially considering that I am not attractive. I kept with the ****y-funny actitude for a while and we ended up in her room. By now, she was giving me lots of IOIs and since we had to go to dinner I told her to leave her phone charging in my room so that way I made sure that she had to stick by me. Unfortunately, my room was shared by 8 guys and for some reason it smelled like **** so I could not just stay with her there. Eventually she was just really being open with her IOIs and told me to take her to my room, but we had been together for like 4 hours and I really had to go to the bathroom and had migraine. When I couldn't take it any longer I told her that I was going to go sleep and we got her phone back from my room and she left. If I hadn't had to go the bathroom and didn't have a headache that made me feel like **** I'm confident that I would have gotten far. So, two questions: 1. What's the right way to say that you have to go to the bathroom or that you have to brush your teeth. 2. How do you deal with headaches and is it better to take her to a place that smells bad or to look for a hidden spot somewhere near trees?

This is my first chance at meeting new people since I discovered sosuave, thanks for the help guys!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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:rockon: Congrats Sir! Yeah I agree with GettinMyMindRight, stear clear of smelly places.

As for the bathroom thing I may have been like "Hey its been a long day I need to take a quick shower." Turn on the shower and take a big cr@p while its running, then shower after.

As for the headache I would rather call it off with a chick if I have a headache VS. risk our first sexual encounter sucking for both of us and having her never want to see me again. I can't even get it up when I have a headache.
 
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