"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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TheVampSlayer

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First, I should have posted this in the High School Forum but that rarely gets traffic.

I was in camp last week, 3 days, 2 nights. It was math camp(actually competition, but it was a camp too) and I was the best there, I even have participated in international competitions. I had my eyes set on a girl that I had known for a few years, and she had given me IOIs before. She was very *****y so I channelled my inner DJ and got rid of oneitis. The second day of camp after the second test we had some activities, and I was voted team leader giving me high social status. I noticed another girl that was pretty (and shy) and started being ****y-funny. It worked wonders, especially considering that I am not attractive. I kept with the ****y-funny actitude for a while and we ended up in her room. By now, she was giving me lots of IOIs and since we had to go to dinner I told her to leave her phone charging in my room so that way I made sure that she had to stick by me. Unfortunately, my room was shared by 8 guys and for some reason it smelled like **** so I could not just stay with her there. Eventually she was just really being open with her IOIs and told me to take her to my room, but we had been together for like 4 hours and I really had to go to the bathroom and had migraine. When I couldn't take it any longer I told her that I was going to go sleep and we got her phone back from my room and she left. If I hadn't had to go the bathroom and didn't have a headache that made me feel like **** I'm confident that I would have gotten far. So, two questions: 1. What's the right way to say that you have to go to the bathroom or that you have to brush your teeth. 2. How do you deal with headaches and is it better to take her to a place that smells bad or to look for a hidden spot somewhere near trees?

This is my first chance at meeting new people since I discovered sosuave, thanks for the help guys!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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:rockon: Congrats Sir! Yeah I agree with GettinMyMindRight, stear clear of smelly places.

As for the bathroom thing I may have been like "Hey its been a long day I need to take a quick shower." Turn on the shower and take a big cr@p while its running, then shower after.

As for the headache I would rather call it off with a chick if I have a headache VS. risk our first sexual encounter sucking for both of us and having her never want to see me again. I can't even get it up when I have a headache.
 
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