"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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thetao of bada$$ on Facebook...seriously?

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I can't believe it. This has to be a greed thing. I am guessing that over 50% of facebookers are women(easily). And I saw the taoofbadass advertised on it, about how it helps in finding women(not an exact quote, but that's the message IMO.). This is gonna make that knowledge useless, women will see this stuff and know to avoid our "knowlegeable actions" just like they gamefully deflect other attempts. zzzzzzzzzzzzz..................
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What exactly did you think was gonna happen when the number of guys using PUA guides and tricks grew too much? BTW, it's still growing today!
 

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I know, it just stinks. Seems like a sellout. This kind of thing will be found by those who need and seek it, w/o putting it on there!
 

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Those PPC (pay per click) advertisements are taylored to each individual computer user. That ad displayed for you because you probably googled some **** about picking up women and visited websites about picking up women. There is computer software that tracks what you visits and hence displays advertisements on websites that you are likely to click on. Women users are seeing different ads, as are men who are into other things like modifying cars or something.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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