Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

TheStig's Workout Log

TheStig

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2012
Messages
1,256
Reaction score
34
Location
USA
My Strength Program
Cycle 1, Week 1, Day 2

Back Squat
warmups
4 sets of 2 with 345 lbs

Bench Press
4 sets of 2 with 300 lbs

Conventional Deadlift
4 sets of 2 with 425 lbs

Pullups
3 sets of 10

Dips
3 sets of 10

T Bar Rows
2 sets of 10 with 2 plates
1 set of 10 with 3 plates
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

TheStig

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2012
Messages
1,256
Reaction score
34
Location
USA
My Strength Program
Cycle 1, week 1, day 3

Back Squat
5 singles of 365 lbs

Bench Press
warmups
5 singles of 320 lbs

Conventional Deadlift
5 singles of 450 lbs

Pullups
3 sets of 10

Dips
3 sets of 10

T Bar Rows
1 set of 10 with 2 plates
2 sets of 10 with 3 plates

felt good today
 

TheStig

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2012
Messages
1,256
Reaction score
34
Location
USA
My Strength Program
Cycle 1, week 1, day 4

Back Squat
warmups
2 sets of 10 with 245 lbs

Bench Press
warmups
2 sets of 10 with 215 lbs

Conventional Deadlift
warmups
2 sets of 10 with 300 lbs

Weighted Pullups/Dips
5 pullups with 70 lbs
5 dips with 100 lbs
x3

T Bar Rows
5 x 3 plates
5 x 4 plates
5 x 5 plates
 

TheStig

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2012
Messages
1,256
Reaction score
34
Location
USA
My Strength Program
Cycle 1, week 1, day 5

Overhead Press
warmups
strict
5 x 135 lbs
5 x 140 lbs
4 x 145 lbs
3 x 150 lbs
3 x 155 lbs
3 x 160 lbs
push
3 x 165 lbs
3 x 170 lbs
2 x 175 lbs
1 x 180 lbs
1 x 185 lbs
1 x 190 lbs
strict
5 x 135 lbs

Toes to Bar
on a bar - - 2 sets of 8
on rings - - 3 sets of 5

Ab Rollouts
with a wheel - - 2 sets of 10
on rings - - 3 sets of 5
 

TheStig

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2012
Messages
1,256
Reaction score
34
Location
USA
My Strength Program
Cycle 1, week 2, day 1

Pause Squat
warmups
3 sets of 3 with 285 lbs

Pause Close Grip Bench Press
3 sets of 3 with 235 lbs
probably could've upped the weight, but it's based on a 295 lb estimated 1RM...I've never actually maxed on close grip pause

Trap Bar Deadlift
3 sets of 3 with 430 lbs

Gymnastic Ring Dips/Pullups
3 sets of 10 of each

Pendlay Rows
after all that ring work I could only muster a set of 10 and a set of 5 with 135 lbs
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

TheStig

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2012
Messages
1,256
Reaction score
34
Location
USA
My Strength Program
Cycle 1, week 2, day 2

Pause Squats
warmups
4 sets of 2 with 300 lbs

Close Grip Pause Bench Press
warmups
4 sets of 2 with 250 lbs

Trap Bar Deadlifts
warmups
4 sets of 2 with 455 lbs

Ring Dips/pullups
3 sets of 10 of each

cut out the rows I was so fried after the rings
 

TheStig

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2012
Messages
1,256
Reaction score
34
Location
USA
It's the simple things in life that matter...just you and some heavy ass weight
 

TheStig

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2012
Messages
1,256
Reaction score
34
Location
USA
My Strength Program
Cycle 1, week 2, day 3

Pause Squat
warmups
5 singles of 320 lbs

Close Grip Pause Bench Press
warmups
5 singles of 265 lbs

Trap Bar Deadlifts
warmups
5 singles of 480 lbs

Ring Dips/Pullups
3 sets of 10 each...was brutal
 

TheStig

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2012
Messages
1,256
Reaction score
34
Location
USA
Cycle 1, week 2, day 4

Pause Squat
warmups
2 sets of 10 with 215 lbs

Close Grip Pause Bench Press
2 sets of 10 with 175 lbs

Trap Bar Deadlift
2 sets of 10 with 320 lbs

Ring Pullups/Dips
5 sets of 5 each

Pendlay Rows
5 x 135 lbs
3 sets of 5 with 225 lbs
5 x 135 lbs
 

TheStig

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2012
Messages
1,256
Reaction score
34
Location
USA
Cycle 1, week 2, day 5

OH Press (all strict)
warmups
3 sets of 5 with 135 lbs
2 sets of 5 with 140 lbs

Abs
toes to bar - - 5 sets of 5
ab wheel rollouts - - 3 sets of 10
ring rollouts - - 5 sets of 5

Ring Dips
3 sets of 10
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

TheStig

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2012
Messages
1,256
Reaction score
34
Location
USA
Abs yesterday + heavy front squats and rack pulls today = abdominal explosion

Front Squat
warmups
3 sets of 3 with 285 lbs

Incline Bench Press
warmups
3 sets of 3 with 235 lbs

Rack Pulls
warmups
3 sets of 3 with 445 lbs

Pullups/Dips
3 sets of 10 each

Bent Over Dumbbell Rows
1 set of 30 with 100 lb dumbbells, each arm

many more pullups and dips were done afterwards with some friends messing around
 

TheStig

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2012
Messages
1,256
Reaction score
34
Location
USA
Last Workout

Front Squat
warmups
4 sets of 2 with 300 lbs

Incline Bench Press
warmups
4 sets of 2 with 240 lbs

Rack Pulls
warmups
4 sets of 2 with 475 lbs

Pullups/Dips
3 sets of 10 each, some on the rings

Today's Workout

Front Squat
warmups
3 singles of 320 lbs, failed the 4th

Incline Bench Press
warmups
5 singles of 255 lbs

Rack Pulls
warmups
5 singles of 500 lbs

Pullups/Dips
3 sets of 10 each, half on rings half on bars
 

TheStig

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2012
Messages
1,256
Reaction score
34
Location
USA
Yesterday

Didn't feel like lifting at all, but I did anyway. I was just really drained and tired all day, probably from catching up on sleep (groggy all day), and it didn't help that I lifted soon after I woke up from a long 13 hr sleep.

Front Squat
7 x 215 lbs
switched over to back squat...was losing grip because my flexibility on the olympic grip has diminished from such a long time without front squatting
13 x 215 lbs

Rack Pulls
2 sets of 10 with 335 lbs

Incline Bench Press
2 sets of 10 with 170 lbs

Pullups/Dips
3 sets of 10 each

Today

Strict Overhead Press
5 sets of 5 with 135 lbs

Toes to Bar
3 sets of 8

Ab Wheel Rollouts
2 sets of 15

Ring Dips
8
8
8
6
5
5
3
 

TheStig

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2012
Messages
1,256
Reaction score
34
Location
USA
Very nice pleasant lift

Back Squat
warmups
3 sets of 3 with 330 lbs

Bench Press
warmups
3 sets of 3 with 290 lbs

Conventional Deadlift
warmups
3 sets of 3 with 410 lbs

Pullups/Ring Dips
3 sets of 10 each
 

TheStig

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2012
Messages
1,256
Reaction score
34
Location
USA
Slogged through all this...was not mentally invested enough

Back Squat
warmups
4 sets of 2 with 355 lbs

Bench Press
warmups
4 sets of 2 with 305 lbs

Conventional Deadlift
warmups
4 sets of 2 with 435 lbs

Ring Dips/Pullups
3 sets of 10 each
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

TheStig

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2012
Messages
1,256
Reaction score
34
Location
USA
Don't know if I'm in a funk or getting burned out... if this trend continues I'll have to tweak my program and shuffle some things around...and also add some lighter weight with more volume

Back Squat
warmups
5 singles of 375 lbs

Bench Press
warmups
3 singles with 325 lbs
2 x 315 lbs because the last single of 325 was waaayyy too slow

Conventional Deadlift
warmups
1 x 460 lbs
4 x 405 lbs dropped the weight for the same reason as I did on bench

Pullups/Ring Dips
3 sets of 10 each
 

TheStig

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2012
Messages
1,256
Reaction score
34
Location
USA
Went a bit lighter with a bit more volume

Back Squat
warmups
8 x 265 lbs
6 x 285 lbs
4 x 305 lbs
2 x 325 lbs
1 x 345 lbs

Bench Press
warmups
8 x 235 lbs
6 x 255 lbs
4 x 275 lbs
2 x 295 lbs
1 x 315 lbs

Conventional Deadlift
warmups
8 x 295 lbs
6 x 315 lbs
4 x 335 lbs
2 x 355 lbs
1 x 375 lbs

All felt good, not too heavy but not too light
 

TheStig

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2012
Messages
1,256
Reaction score
34
Location
USA
Back Squat
warmups
8 x 280 lbs
6 x 290 lbs
4 x 300 lbs
3 x 310 lbs
2 x 320 lbs
1 x 330 lbs
1 x 315 lbs 5 second pause
1 x 225 lbs forever pause

Bench Press
warmups
8 x 265 lbs
6 x 275 lbs
4 x 285 lbs
3 x 295 lbs
1 x 305 lbs

Trap bar deadlifts for a set of 8 x 320 lbs and 10 ring dips, was moderate volume with moderate weight
 

TheStig

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2012
Messages
1,256
Reaction score
34
Location
USA
Threw my program aside for now...at least a month of heavy ass full body every workout is starting to burn me out

OH Press
warmups
2 sets of 5 with 135 lbs, strict

Rack Pulls
warmups
5 x 405 lbs
5 x 455 lbs
3 x 475 lbs
3 x 495 lbs
1 x 510 lbs
1 x 520 lbs
1 x 530 lbs
1 x 540 lbs
15 x 405 lbs

Ring Dips
10 8 8 8 8 5
 

TheStig

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2012
Messages
1,256
Reaction score
34
Location
USA
Trying to incorporate more volume

Bench Press
a bunch x the bar
10 x 135 lbs
9 x 185 lbs
8 x 205 lbs
7 x 225 lbs
6 x 245 lbs
5 x 265 lbs
4 x 285 lbs
2 x 305 lbs
8 x 225 lbs
4 x 225 lbs
massive pump

Trap Bar Deadlift
10 sets of 10 with 225 lbs

all only took about 45 minutes
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Top