"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

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Purefilth said:
You are a beast.
Thanks dude, it really does mean a lot. I owe it all to playing football (american football obviously lol) all through middle school and high school. Seriously. That's where I learned what I know. The stuff I learned from the coaches has been invaluable. That's where I also started doing dropset curls on the barbell (so intense dude). We'd have a group of 3 or 4 guys doing it, and we'd do 3 rounds, instead of the one round I do now. Nothing better than lifting at the schools weight room (we had a ballin' weight room), with coaches and teammates screamin' in your face tellin' you to get the fvckin weight up.

And beast is a strong word haha I see some guys that make me feel like a b1tch lol.
 

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

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So I unexpectedly got the night off of work, and what better way to start the night off, than with a good, hard-ass lift!
Heavy Day, Round 2
Deadlift
5 x 225 lbs
3 x 295 lbs
3 x 315 lbs
2 x 345 lbs
1 x 365 lbs
3 x 315 lbs
3 x 315 lbs

Dumbbell Bench Press
2 sets of 8 with 90 pounders

Dips
4 sets of 10

Incline Bench (did this just for the hell of it)
10 x 135 lbs
8 x 155 lbs

Pullups
2 sets of 10

Rollouts
3 sets of 10

Squat
10 x 135 lbs
6 x 225 lbs
5 x 275 lbs
3 x 315 lbs
2 x 315 lbs

I guess I was a bit fatigued from yesterday, but honestly I still felt fvckin good the whole time. Now here's to a restful and hopefully eventful weekend :up:
 

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:up: champion
 

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Oh fvck, what a workout, I almost puked in the gym parking lot afterwards..
Circuit Day
5 rounds
5 deadlifts (275 lbs)
8 pullups
10 rollouts
12 dips
15 pushups

I changed up the reps today so I could expend all my energy evenly, depending on how much energy a particular exercise takes outta me. Example: for me pullups are much, much more physically demanding than pushups. So 8 pullups takes the same energy outta me as 15 pushups. Same with everything in this circuit. When I just had a set number of reps, some parts of the circuit were too easy (usually pushups and dips). Holy sh1t though, this was fvcking effective. Either that or I just feel so sh1tty cuz it's the first lift of the week.
 

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Good work on your heavy days! I'd STRONGLY recommend you invest in some gym chalk! Its the best thing ever!

I have a feeling you may have some issues with your hip mobility/flexibility. Its common for taller guys that are just getting into bigger weights. Try doing ATG squats with a lighter weight (no more than 225 lbs) and really get ATG and "sit in" to it if you know what I mean. You can also do pistols which really help w/ hip flexibility, etc.

Pistol:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TWvIu7s-vIM

The overhead pistol squat is AMAZING...
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

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Fuglydude said:
Good work on your heavy days! I'd STRONGLY recommend you invest in some gym chalk! Its the best thing ever!

I have a feeling you may have some issues with your hip mobility/flexibility. Its common for taller guys that are just getting into bigger weights. Try doing ATG squats with a lighter weight (no more than 225 lbs) and really get ATG and "sit in" to it if you know what I mean. You can also do pistols which really help w/ hip flexibility, etc.

Pistol:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TWvIu7s-vIM

The overhead pistol squat is AMAZING...
OMG those look ridiculous! I'll definitely have to give those a try. And yeah, I am on the tall side, so I have had some issues with flexibility, but I've been working on it. Thanks for help man.
 

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Goin' for alllllll kinds of hypertrophy
BB Day
Bench Press
15 x 135 lbs
12 x 185 lbs + chains
10 x 205 lbs + chains
8 x 225 lbs + chains (GAINSS....for some reason getting to 8 reps with 225 has always been a milestone for me)
3 x 245 lbs + chains
0 x 265 lbs + chains (that set of 225 wiped me out)
5 x 225 lbs
17 x 135 lbs

Pullups (done slower with a good squeeze)
8 pronated, 8 supinated, 8 pronated

Cable Crossovers (same idea as pullups)
3 sets of 10 @ 50 lbs

Dumbbell Bench Press
9 x 90 lbs
8 x 90 lbs
6 x 100 lbs

Incline Bench Press (fvck this lift...)
10 x 135 lbs
5 x 165 lbs
8 x 135 lbs

Skullcrushers
3 sets of 10 @ 75 lbs

Dropset Barbell Curls (SO INTENSE)
10 x 85 lbs
10 x 80 lbs
10 x 75 lbs
10 x 65 lbs
10 x 45 lbs

Gator Pushups to finish with 20 lb dumbbells
3 sets of 10

Not much else to say...solid day. I feel good and pumped. Neglected the pulling exercises without realizing it....so I'm gonna go out in the backyard to my pullup tree and bust out some sets.

Edit: THIS is the last exercise
Tree Pullups
5, 5, 7, 9, 3, 5, 5, 5, 6, 5, 5, 5, 5, 5
=75
 
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Lulz @ pullup tree!
 

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lol yeah there's a tree in my backyard with a low lying horizontal branch...can't grip it all the way around so it works my hands too lol
 

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TheStig said:
lol yeah there's a tree in my backyard with a low lying horizontal branch...can't grip it all the way around so it works my hands too lol
I'm currently living in China so I don't even have access to a gym which sucks. My pullup bar is thick as fvck but my grip is now stupidly strong and I can't wait to see what happens when I revert back to a normal bar.
Using random sh1t to workout ftw! :cheer:
 

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She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yeah man I bet it'll be refreshing to go back to a normal bar lol
 

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I am WIPED THE FFFFF OUT
Heavy Day(sqwwaaats and bench)
Bench Press (no chains today)
10 x 135 lbs
5 x 205 lbs
5 x 225 lbs
5 x 245 lbs
3 x 255 lbs
1 x 265 lbs
1 x 275 lbs
1 x 280 lbs (back to my old max senior year of hs!)
0 x 285 lbs (I'll get there....and beyond)
5 x 225 lbs

Back Squat
5 x 225 lbs
5 x 255 lbs
5 x 275 lbs
5 x 295 lbs
5 x 315 lbs
2 x 335 lbs (failed on the 3rd rep, couldn't it get up and I let it down on the safety bars, this new form change is fvcking tiring and I love it)

then just some light front squats, did 3 sets of 5 with 135 lbs

muscle up to 10 straight bar dips, 2 sets (fvckin A I feel it in my traps more than any amount of shrugs I've done)

Dips/Pullups Supersets (for fun)
15 dips, 10 pullups, x3

Before I left I was pretty curious as to what I could front squat for real, so this is how it went:

Front Squat
5 x 135 lbs
3 x 185 lbs
2 x 205 lbs
2 x 225 lbs

holy hell....225 on the front squat feels like a thousand pounds...THAT'S what wiped me out, along with the the rest of the workout lol

Pretty satisfied with today. Circuit tomorrow then DEADS on Saturday..get some!
 

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Repeat...... you are a beast.
 

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Nice front squat!
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

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Thanks guys, I try
What grip are you using on your fronts? Front squats are nasty. If you like front squats, then there's something seriously wrong with you. That being said, they're a phenomenal core training movement.

How deep are you getting on your front and back squats with your new technique?
 

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Fuglydude said:
What grip are you using on your fronts? Front squats are nasty. If you like front squats, then there's something seriously wrong with you. That being said, they're a phenomenal core training movement.

How deep are you getting on your front and back squats with your new technique?
I use the crossed arms grip, and I only like them because of how much I hate them...if that makes sense lol. What I actually do like about them though, is how much easier it is to get low on a front squat compared to a back squat. Depth is good for my height, about an inch below parallel. When I get to the heavier weights it's not super consistent..I have to mentally tell myself each rep to get loooow. I'm getting to the point where I just need to get more flexible now. Oh and I tried those pistol squats, and I fell over lol.
 

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Just kill me now...
Circuit Day
each round was:
5 front squats (185 lbs)
8 pullups
10 ab rollouts
(slooowww this time)
12 dips
15 pushups

for 5 rounds
then afterwards I did 5 more front squats and 8 more pullups to put the nails in the coffin
 

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Heavy Day(deadlifts!)
Deadlift
5 x 135 lbs (warmup)
5 x 225 lbs (warmup)
5 x 275 lbs (warmup)
working sets
5 x 295 lbs
4 x 315 lbs
3 x 335 lbs
1 x 355 lbs
1 x 365 lbs
1 x 375 lbs
0 x 375 lbs
barefoot sets
3 x 315 lbs
3 x 315 lbs
3 x 315 lbs
2 x 315 lbs

Pullups
4 sets of 8, varying grips

Dips
4 sets of 10

finished off with 20 hammer curls (40 lbers) just for the puuump

Props to Elliott Hulse and his deadlifting videos...seriously (especially this one: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W5qcN_w_m8c&list=UU0ASolYU_Yh3yShLFQC0stg&index=2)
 

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Nice DL's on your way to 405 :D
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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