these so called Shyt Tests

[frivolousz21]

does this really exist.


or is this someway for someone to justify there gf being a little emotionally disturbed?

from my expierence..myself and my boys and other guys I see with good girls...they dont do any of this.


Maybe this is just some crap put out by insecure women.

or maybe its a justification by some to think there women cares for them when they dont.

 

[DonJuanMonk]

Maybe you're just overwhelmingly clueless.

 

[frivolousz21]

Maybe you're just overwhelmingly clueless.

or maybe you date a bunch of women who play games with you, not tests....

 

[ScrewIt]

I dont necessarily think they do it purposefully, it may be more of a subconscious act.

I mean seriously these girls go through everyday with guys hitting on them all the time, it would be vital for them to have a system to filter out the afcs from the dj's.

They end up using this system of **** tests so often that it's practically ingrained in their heads.

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

Hey Friv,

The "keepers" don't throw out sh!t tests, and if they do... you pass them without even realizing it.

 

[frivolousz21]

its just that I hear stories of guys on here with girls after 3 or 4 months....giving them tests.


seems to me like its more of a emotional problem the women has, maybe she is to insecure..or what not.


and if she is manipulating you..then its more of a game then a test.

I suppose if she throws out any of this...if u want a ltr you should move on.

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

Originally posted by frivolousz21


I suppose if she throws out any of this...if u want a ltr you should move on.

not necessarily. She does it to make sure you are the real deal, and to quell any doubts she might secretly be harbouring.

Now, don't get me wrong..... some behaviours go beyond tests. In which case, the girl should be dumped on her ass. Most tests are very subtle and only mean't to catch you off guard and shake your composure. Any real guy will laugh at it, think it's cute and shrug it off.

I'll often go as far as calling her on her little test. Most girls turn red, cause they know they're caught and that you saw right through it. Don't pass the test, throw it out.

 

[satyriasis]

causal dating = screen testing

long-term relationships = emotional testing

 

[DonJuanMonk]

Originally posted by satyriasis
causal dating = screen testing

long-term relationships = emotional testing

That's true. In the beginning of trying to date a girl she will do the usual phone games to test how desperate you are, she will see how much of a MAN you are.

Then in LTR, she will see how loyal you are, how much bullcrap you can put up with. Those who say women don't test you even if you're in a ltr or consider you a keeper. I LOL @ YOU. WOMEN TEST ALL THE TIME. Even UGs/Fat Girls.

They game/test you even when you don't know it, the reason why they don't test you frivolous21 cause they think you're GAY, that's when theres no reason to test you.

 

[frivolousz21]

They game/test you even when you don't know it, the reason why they don't test you frivolous21 cause they think you're GAY, that's when theres no reason to test you.

do you realize how insecure you and all your boys who rip me are.

(wow, dude, im cool because I go on a website and call some guy gay and feminem..yea man it really boosts my ego)
its simply amazing.

this is why I know most of you are KBJ's.

you think women test all the time because you read it on here.....or you get played with because you let them dis respect you.


please everyone start throwing in your examples.

ive been in 3 ltrs and cant remember being tested 1 time.

hell I cant remember being tested 1 time with every single women ive been on a date with.

 

[Bill S. Preston Esq]

I agree with friv, tests are stupid and the girls who pull them wouldn't like it if you reversed it.

To each his own though, I think they're stupid and will next a broad if she pulls that, unless this Catherine Bell we're talking about, then i'd probably wash her car or something

 

[Egoist]

Originally posted by frivolousz21

ive been in 3 ltrs and cant remember being tested 1 time.

hell I cant remember being tested 1 time with every single women ive been on a date with.

i don't know man, i have trouble believing it.. maybe you weren't paying attention or passing them without noticing.. but every woman does it, even the best ones..

 

[frivolousz21]

i suppose


the 3 ltr women didnt test me.

but maybe the others did..maybe thats why im not with them..or it didnt last.


I really want some examples of this...because I know women are emotional based

maybe they dont even know half the time they are doing it..if they do it

 

[OneArmDeeJay]

Originally posted by frivolousz21
i suppose


the 3 ltr women didnt test me.

but maybe the others did..maybe thats why im not with them..or it didnt last.

No they did test you but you failed hence why your not with them.

I agree what satyriasis said and add on by DonJuanMonk.

Originally posted by frivolousz21
I really want some examples of this...because I know women are emotional based

maybe they dont even know half the time they are doing it..if they do it

Now next time do a search. Come on man how long have you been here again?

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=18393&highlight=Test

 

[frivolousz21]

No they did test you but you failed hence why your not with them.

Im not with them..becuase I left both of them....im currently involved with my 3rd.


stop trying to cheap shot me...because of your own insecurities.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showth...&highlight=Test

Ive never had 1 of those ever happen to me.

 

[\O/]

I think the shyt tests exists, but i don't think it's "planned" tests that they use to qualify the man. I think it just happens naturally due to the fact that they are being hit on so often. They develop a subconscious "screening system" that you have to pass..

 

[iCY]

he does bring up a good point

the only girl i know that shyt tests has had a terrible childhood, is a shb, and has lots of issues now haha

normal girls dont consciously shyt test you. they will test to see where your border line is though by seeing how much they can get away with.

 

[blueangel83]

Response from a female:

It's a test to see IF THE GUY CARES.

Some females do act up to see how the male reacts.

If you fail the test, you supposedly don't care about her.

Me, I don't give a sh*t.

 

[Centaurion]

Sh!t tests are genetically encoded into the female DNA. It does not matter how long you've been with a chick or how good you think you know them, they will sh!t test you. All chicks do this. Maybe some arn't so overly obvious the first couple of times, but they are still sh!t testing you. They want to see how far they can push.

 

[\O/]

Originally posted by blueangel83
Response from a female:

It's a test to see IF THE GUY CARES.

You're way off...

Go make some cookies :cheer: