"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Nicholas Hill

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Hey guys,

Don't you realise how much the stuff on this site or in the Bible are worth? I know many guys who would pay for the materials made so easily available.

And yet it amazes me the people, who are on this site (for nothing!) complaining about not being able to get the material to work in the real world. They blame the material, despite me and many others testifying to the success that comes by changing your mindset in this way.

Sosuave is an amazing site, don't take it for granted. Newbies should restrict the "advice" they post here until they see through the eyes of the Don Juan mindset. Although us more mature, experienced people are mostly outside on the field, we should take the time to occasionally post some further tips of wisdom (like when I wrote "Social Filters").

I just wanted to let all of you guys know that this site resembles a life changing pursuit, not a quick fix to your specific problem. It is worth more than you give credit for.

Nick
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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THE_ADDMAN

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Nick, u have a good point.


a lot of our newbies are too stubborn and proud to use the materials offered on this site. THAT is why they are giving advice long before they know what they are talking about.

keep up the good work on the DJ Bible
 

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The key is that you look through life as an AFC and to become a DJ you need to go way out of your comfort zone and take a lot of risks and basically BE who you want to BE. At first you won't believe it and thats why you will fail, but in time you WILL become who you always wanted to be and when you believe in yourself with supreme confidence you will see life through your new perspective. When you do things and you lack confidence it does not matter what you do your screwed.. you HAVE TO make yourself better and better and BE who you want to be. It is not a set strategy this is the hardest part. All the knowledge in the world does NOT make a DJ it is something you have to become.
 

Potbelly

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haha I get it, good april fool's joke.
 

syncmaster

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THE_ADDMAN said:
Nick, u have a good point.


a lot of our newbies are too stubborn and proud to use the materials offered on this site. THAT is why they are giving advice long before they know what they are talking about.

keep up the good work on the DJ Bible
What pisses me off i the blind leading the blind. New guys who think they're hot stuff offering poor advice that confuses everyone who listens.

Cheers
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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thats right buddy, and the fools dont even listen to reason

they blame and flame experienced DJs who try to step in and correct them
 

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Nicholas Hill said:
I just wanted to let all of you guys know that this site resembles a life changing pursuit, not a quick fix to your specific problem. It is worth more than you give credit for.
:up:
 

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I am here because of the Book of Pook.

So far it's the only useful thing I've found here.

But don't take that in a derogatory way because that one thing is probably the MOST inspiring material I've ever read.
 
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