"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Nicholas Hill

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Hey guys,

Don't you realise how much the stuff on this site or in the Bible are worth? I know many guys who would pay for the materials made so easily available.

And yet it amazes me the people, who are on this site (for nothing!) complaining about not being able to get the material to work in the real world. They blame the material, despite me and many others testifying to the success that comes by changing your mindset in this way.

Sosuave is an amazing site, don't take it for granted. Newbies should restrict the "advice" they post here until they see through the eyes of the Don Juan mindset. Although us more mature, experienced people are mostly outside on the field, we should take the time to occasionally post some further tips of wisdom (like when I wrote "Social Filters").

I just wanted to let all of you guys know that this site resembles a life changing pursuit, not a quick fix to your specific problem. It is worth more than you give credit for.

Nick
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Nick, u have a good point.


a lot of our newbies are too stubborn and proud to use the materials offered on this site. THAT is why they are giving advice long before they know what they are talking about.

keep up the good work on the DJ Bible
 
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The key is that you look through life as an AFC and to become a DJ you need to go way out of your comfort zone and take a lot of risks and basically BE who you want to BE. At first you won't believe it and thats why you will fail, but in time you WILL become who you always wanted to be and when you believe in yourself with supreme confidence you will see life through your new perspective. When you do things and you lack confidence it does not matter what you do your screwed.. you HAVE TO make yourself better and better and BE who you want to be. It is not a set strategy this is the hardest part. All the knowledge in the world does NOT make a DJ it is something you have to become.
 
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haha I get it, good april fool's joke.
 
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THE_ADDMAN said:
Nick, u have a good point.


a lot of our newbies are too stubborn and proud to use the materials offered on this site. THAT is why they are giving advice long before they know what they are talking about.

keep up the good work on the DJ Bible
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What pisses me off i the blind leading the blind. New guys who think they're hot stuff offering poor advice that confuses everyone who listens.

Cheers
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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thats right buddy, and the fools dont even listen to reason

they blame and flame experienced DJs who try to step in and correct them
 
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Nicholas Hill said:
I just wanted to let all of you guys know that this site resembles a life changing pursuit, not a quick fix to your specific problem. It is worth more than you give credit for.
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I am here because of the Book of Pook.

So far it's the only useful thing I've found here.

But don't take that in a derogatory way because that one thing is probably the MOST inspiring material I've ever read.
 
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