"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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itishe

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Sarcasm in the title, let me explain.

I've noticed lately that every post (I'm guilty just as much) is essentially a guy looking for a strategy guide/approval for his actions. Seems to me that all the chiefs have left or given up on us and now the Indians have no one to look up to.

I remember before the boards went down, there was still some hope compared to the earlier days (old threads I've read that were just absolute gold, especially from Pook) as in people were still posting threads that were good motivation/ways to change your perspective and so forth.

The boards will eventually have to change course, or just asking questions that will later be answered by kids just as confused as the askers will be the norm, thus creating a vicious cycle of going no where.

Don't consider this a way to change, look at it as just a "heads up" to the obvious.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Fash

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The "chiefs" must have started at some point as well. The WAY we pick up women might change, but there will always be upcoming "chiefs" and actually "chiefs" around who are banging hot women on a regular.

Don't depend fully on what you see or read here. The key is to take out what feels right and add it to your own game. Look to better your self.

I agree with you, there are some dodgy advice in some posts sometimes, but you shouldnt solely depend on this site, and do your own reading on the side!
 

frivolousz21

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eventually you realize..what inner game really is.

then you no longer have to ask questions..you will find all your answers.


to achieve this inner game....read my post coming on inner game
 

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The game constantly evolves, but basic principles always remain the same. Take for instance being a gentlemen, the same rules still apply- open doors for women, pull out their chairs, dont cuss (or minimally), call them maam all the time, see all these are still used! When I ask out a woman, I call her maam because I am a gentlemen. Then she will say, you dont have to call me maam, call me katie, christine, or whatever. 9 times out of 10, she is impressed :up:

Even though times have changed, desired traits have not

-Confidence, self-esteem, humor, being a man, charm, smiling,,ect..

Keep this in mind above any strategy, because these tactics are not worth a damn unless you posess the confidence to use them. And with the above traits, you really dont even need strategy, you only need to know the games women play, like AD says "protect your heart"
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Nice Guy is Gone

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these tactics are not worth a damn unless you posess the confidence to use them
This is the major obstacle in most guys' lives--have confidence in yourself--and your life will improve.
 

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itishe said:
Sarcasm in the title, let me explain.

I've noticed lately that every post (I'm guilty just as much) is essentially a guy looking for a strategy guide/approval for his actions. Seems to me that all the chiefs have left or given up on us and now the Indians have no one to look up to.

I remember before the boards went down, there was still some hope compared to the earlier days (old threads I've read that were just absolute gold, especially from Pook) as in people were still posting threads that were good motivation/ways to change your perspective and so forth.

The boards will eventually have to change course, or just asking questions that will later be answered by kids just as confused as the askers will be the norm, thus creating a vicious cycle of going no where.

Don't consider this a way to change, look at it as just a "heads up" to the obvious.
I agree completly!!!

All guys: STOP BEING PVSSIES!!! Don't seek approval for your actions! Read Pook's posts! Getting chicks is easy to learn, but you'd have to go out!

Here's my little training for you guys:

1. Turn off your computer
2. Go out
3. Do not turn your computer until you've got 3 girl's numbers!
4. Read a little, prepare for next mission (like getting 5 numbers etc) and then turn off computer again etc etc etc.

This will inspire you!







And to moderators: please remove this stupid censorship!
 
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