"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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There's this problem......

Bigtrucker2008

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I wasn't sure which forum to put this on, so bear with me:

Ok, there is this girl who i've been talking to for a while. We have talked about it, but we arent officially going out. Her friend likes me too. The girl asked through a text message do I like her friend. what do I do?

The thing is, I've known her friend longer than I've known her and we've both liked each other longer. I don't really want to choose seeing as to how I'm not officially with either of them.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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danny987

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i would say yes, just so she doesnt think she has a hold on you
 

Mechwarrior13

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uh try to get a three some going? it depends how much you value your friendship with the one you know better really...if you don't care for either then you potentially could get sex from both
 
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