"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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theres this new girl in a way i know she likes me but games??

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Basically she gave me her # online we metup for date she seemeddd interested making date ideas n all i got to kiss her. (Only weird things random is her call and txting is speriadic) like i text her she randomly replies night and half later or i text her no reply or calls day later or i txted/call her she replies like close to9pm. Anyways i planned date she was down and i got in a car wreck im in hospital for week. She jus txted paul i was in icu all wk my dad did respond and call everyone she texted said im sorry i feel awful i thought you were ignoring me i told her where im at n all and she should visit but kinda being random about it. I guess i just hit her up until i get home? I guess no biggie text 1 or 2 times during week to say hey. Think i got chance with her whassup?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Seems like theres interest but weird sometimes on replying to txt and calling.
I plannned date but i got in wreck.
 
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