"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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theres this new girl in a way i know she likes me but games??

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Basically she gave me her # online we metup for date she seemeddd interested making date ideas n all i got to kiss her. (Only weird things random is her call and txting is speriadic) like i text her she randomly replies night and half later or i text her no reply or calls day later or i txted/call her she replies like close to9pm. Anyways i planned date she was down and i got in a car wreck im in hospital for week. She jus txted paul i was in icu all wk my dad did respond and call everyone she texted said im sorry i feel awful i thought you were ignoring me i told her where im at n all and she should visit but kinda being random about it. I guess i just hit her up until i get home? I guess no biggie text 1 or 2 times during week to say hey. Think i got chance with her whassup?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Seems like theres interest but weird sometimes on replying to txt and calling.
I plannned date but i got in wreck.
 
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