Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Theres so much out of seduction/pick up....

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Theres so much of seduction/pick up out there that....

Girls have to know about a lot of this by now and can pick up on certain things that guys use when out. Any opinions?

Thank god I dont use any structured routines like a lot of guys..
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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All you have to do is avoid the cliche opinion openers and dont wear fuzzy hats.

They key to pickup is to a cool, fun, MAN. Girls know when guys are trying to pick them up. it doesnt matter if he's using the same tactics as 'the pickup artist,' if hes attractive, hes attractive.
 

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It's called game for a reason.

Imagine playing football with some kid who doesn't know any of the rules...that's how chics feel about afcs who don't know game. They love the game, and they love a good player in the game...and they will take the chance of losing in exchange for a great game. Now go play!
 

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horaholic said:
All you have to do is avoid the cliche opinion openers and dont wear fuzzy hats.

They key to pickup is to a cool, fun, MAN. Girls know when guys are trying to pick them up. it doesnt matter if he's using the same tactics as 'the pickup artist,' if hes attractive, hes attractive.
LMAO, that def aint me but I feel ya man. I use situation openers, not that canned routine ****. And yea im attractive, im sure that def helps.


It's called game for a reason.

Imagine playing football with some kid who doesn't know any of the rules...that's how chics feel about afcs who don't know game. They love the game, and they love a good player in the game...and they will take the chance of losing in exchange for a great game. Now go play!
Not always true bro, some women dont play games, they just do fu*king **** tests on ya.
 

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What if every guy on the planet starts to be "****y and funny"?
It would mean...back to basics? :]

Just a thought...the more guys use fake confidence - "****y and funny" and other routines - the more girls will shyt test ya.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Crissco:
Not always true bro, some women dont play games, they just do fu*king **** tests on ya.
Having game and playing games are two different things.

Every girl knows the game. It's intuitive, it's instinctual, it's wired into her bones. "Playing games" has the connotation of misleading one person to believe there is more going on than there really is (or cruelly dragging things out), and that is different from the context of game as the principles of behavior which guide the subtextual currents of human interactions into the bedroom. Those girls who "don't play games" are the ones with sufficiently high enough interest to be easily caught with minimal effort, but rest assured when their interest wanes, their "non-game playing" tune will change, even if you're left in the dark about it. I'm reminded of the wisdom of Robert Greene, author of the 48 Laws of Power and the Art of Seduction: everyone is a player, there's no escaping the game, and be careful of the supposed non-players (which is a strategy of playing the game).
 

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Your right, your right. I didn't even think of that. The books by Robert Greene are awesome, I have them, but they are a bit immoral in certain ways.

Rogue said:
Having game and playing games are two different things.

Every girl knows the game. It's intuitive, it's instinctual, it's wired into her bones. "Playing games" has the connotation of misleading one person to believe there is more going on than there really is (or cruelly dragging things out), and that is different from the context of game as the principles of behavior which guide the subtextual currents of human interactions into the bedroom. Those girls who "don't play games" are the ones with sufficiently high enough interest to be easily caught with minimal effort, but rest assured when their interest wanes, their "non-game playing" tune will change, even if you're left in the dark about it. I'm reminded of the wisdom of Robert Greene, author of the 48 Laws of Power and the Art of Seduction: everyone is a player, there's no escaping the game, and be careful of the supposed non-players (which is a strategy of playing the game).
 

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Crissco said:
Not always true bro, some women dont play games, they just do fu*king **** tests on ya.
If the woman can't appreciate the game, find one who can.

Just make sure it's HER and not YOU. ;)
 

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Crissco said:
Girls have to know about a lot of this by now and can pick up on certain things that guys use when out. Any opinions?

Thank god I dont use any structured routines like a lot of guys..

Don't use the same stuff that everyone else is using.

Picking up women is all about selling yourself.

Very similar to using the same "Closes" from the 1950's that every slimy salesman has used before, and you'll be good.

Consumers know the game, you're there the sell them something. Yet, amazingly they still buy what you're selling if you're "game is tight".
 
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