"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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There's so much amateur psychology going on around here

beastmaster79

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handle you sound like a douche.

many people have intellectual pursuits as hobbies. understanding women is a passion of mine which i think i share with many on this board. even though there is some good research about attraction out there and i believe it is subject that is gaining popularity, i don't think academia will ever support figureing out how to bone chicks. thats why we break it down here. analysis is healthy and stimulating as long as it's matched with action.

Interceptor, I liked your post.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yeah i speak from experience not psychology. I simply come here to help the few players who actually need help. The other reason is for entertainment purposes because it's damn obvious that a majority of the "dj's" around here don't know a damn thing about game, women or getting laid. LOL i saw one topic a few days ago about guy's shouldn't dance because thats a feminine thing. I stopped reading after that. The ignorance of members around here never surprises me and i always get a good laugh.
 

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Yeah, sure, and all "qualified" people have the answers and excellent personal lives ... or not. Doing what works is a lot simpler than TRYING to explain why. I'll stick with how and let virgin eggheads argue why endlessly, mkay?
 

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backbreaker said:
as much time as you guys are here you dont' know antyhing

1) Rollo T is a professioanl Psychologist

2) Penkitten and Gio are married

3) Star8up does something with real estate and strippers....i don't know how he puts the two together but it's ovbiously working for him
I think that plasticsurgen is some sort of a doctor or something to that effect.

A lot of other posters are just going to school.

A few live outside of the USA.
 
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backbreaker said:
as much time as you guys are here you dont' know antyhing

1) Rollo T is a professional Psychologist
This explains his wordiness and pontificating! I imagine he smokes a pipe while he posts. :rolleyes:

backbreaker said:
as much time as you guys are here you dont' know antyhing

2) Gio and Penkitten are married.
I feel sorry for the Kitty Kat!!


backbreaker said:
as much time as you guys are here you dont' know antyhing

3) Star8up does something with real estate and strippers....i don't know how he puts the two together but it's ovbiously working for him
Damnnnnnn, he runs a wh@re House? I always thought so!!!!!

backbreaker said:
as much time as you guys are here you dont' know antyhing

4) Last Man Standing is PuertoRican_Lover and he gives the most and best insight to us young ones who are lost in the wilderness!
You got this one right :up:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It is Francisco who is the psychopath, errrrrr, psychologist - he admitted doing psychological "social" experiments on this forum through his probing questions and sometimes outlandish remarks to get a "reaction"! We are freaking lab animals here, fellas!!
 
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