"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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There's so much amateur psychology going on around here

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"Women want this sort of guy because deep down it satisfies their meta***** complex and feeds into their ego and secretly all women crave ____, ___, and _____ because of their primal drive for _____. Trust me bro women have this like brain thing that makes them love you but hate you at the same time and they can't handle a true masculine man because it feeds into their brain wiring and makes them explode like a timebomb of sex. When they're reading cosmo they're reinforcing societal standards and creating a deep skewed sense of being a woman when in reality the primal mind of the female is that they are slvts and they want to be fvcked."

Unless you guys have actual clout in these fields (i.e. you're a well-respected anthropologist, sociologist, or psychologist with a specialization that gives you the means to talk about this stuff authoritatively)... Then you should spend your time pursuing a hobby or something.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I don't need no fancy book-smarts piece of paper qualification, I knows what I seen.
 

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handle said:
"Women want this sort of guy because deep down it satisfies their meta***** complex and feeds into their ego and secretly all women crave ____, ___, and _____ because of their primal drive for _____. Trust me bro women have this like brain thing that makes them love you but hate you at the same time and they can't handle a true masculine man because it feeds into their brain wiring and makes them explode like a timebomb of sex. When they're reading cosmo they're reinforcing societal standards and creating a deep skewed sense of being a woman when in reality the primal mind of the female is that they are slvts and they want to be fvcked."

Unless you guys have actual clout in these fields (i.e. you're a well-respected anthropologist, sociologist, or psychologist with a specialization that gives you the means to talk about this stuff authoritatively)... Then you should spend your time pursuing a hobby or something.

I agree bro, but just out of curiosity, are you a qualified psychologist? I'll assume you are.
 

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Dongfu said:
I agree bro, but just out of curiosity, are you a qualified psychologist? I'll assume you are.
:crackup:

He's right though. But hey it's not like we're going to have a full time psychologist monitoring this board and give us free sessions.

You just have to take every with a ton of salt here! And don't believe everything you read on the Interenet!
 

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Working in the field pretty much requires a doctorate. I bet guys who are professional psychologists are mostly professor-looking bookish types who don't get a lot of women.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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To hell with the feminized universities.

Step out of the matrix, handle!
 

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Nighthawk said:
I don't need no fancy book-smarts piece of paper qualification, I knows what I seen.
Same with me. Bob Dylan famously sang, "You don't need a weatherman to know which way the wind blows." Guess what? Millions of men pick up women successfully, repeatedly, and they're NOT psychologists! Amazing!

And what's Sigmund Freud's great quote? "There's one thing I've never been able to figure out, and that is what do women want?"

Basically, being a psychologist doesn't mean bull**** when it comes to getting women.
 

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The Hor Matrix has got you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Flee!!!!!!! Runaway!!!!!!!!!!!

LOlZORZ


seriously, I do what most guys do here, I just take it with a grain of salt. There 's some really good people on here. And I always take into account people's actual first hand experiences.
One thing that I try NOT to do, is look at this stuff and go "YES!! A-HA!!! This is it!!!This and niothing else! There are no exceptions!!" So I try ot not make this advice a be all end all, a conclusion. I try no to look at this as purely Black and White.
We are alwasy changing and evolving. And evey experience, no matter how similar, is unique. So I try not to o for a cookie cutter mentality, and try to read the underlrying point, and place it in MY reality.
Meh, at the end of the day there is some really helpful stuff in here. And some good people with good hearts.
 

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Basically, being a psychologist doesn't mean bull**** when it comes to getting women.

true...
but it's always fun having the ability to push all the right buttoms and watch them squirm when they get their panties in a bunch...:crazy:





because you know how to do it soooooo well :whistle:
 

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handle said:
"Women want this sort of guy because deep down it satisfies their meta***** complex and feeds into their ego and secretly all women crave ____, ___, and _____ because of their primal drive for _____. Trust me bro women have this like brain thing that makes them love you but hate you at the same time and they can't handle a true masculine man because it feeds into their brain wiring and makes them explode like a timebomb of sex. When they're reading cosmo they're reinforcing societal standards and creating a deep skewed sense of being a woman when in reality the primal mind of the female is that they are slvts and they want to be fvcked."

Unless you guys have actual clout in these fields (i.e. you're a well-respected anthropologist, sociologist, or psychologist with a specialization that gives you the means to talk about this stuff authoritatively)... Then you should spend your time pursuing a hobby or something.

You don't need a qualification, just experience and a brain. You know, many of the brilliant inventors of our past did so well precisely because they hadn't received standard schooling. Gave them a fresh angle.

Still, what are you, the opinion police? or just out on an ego trip?. Let people speak their minds ffs. It's a f-o-r-u-m.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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knowing what women do and why they do it not psychology, it's game.

What gets me is guys who try to physoanalyze other guys.To them everyone (besides themselves fo course) is a miserable prick who got abused as a child and doesn't know waht the true meaning of life is.
 

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There's so much amateur psychology going on around the INTERNET.

But hey it's not like we're going to have a full time psychologist monitoring this board and give us free sessions.
Actually, our most prolific poster is also a professional psychologist, I believe.
 

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very true. and from what I understand a pretty good one.
 

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Street_Fighter said:
true...
but it's always fun having the ability to push all the right buttoms and watch them squirm when they get their panties in a bunch...:crazy:

because you know how to do it soooooo well :whistle:

What does talking to retards and antisocial elements for a living ("psychologist") have to do with picking up women....? Ah.. maybe we need to do some dream analysis to qualify "to talk about this stuff authoritatively"! Most of psychology is pseudoscience bro...
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Working in the field pretty much requires a doctorate. I bet guys who are professional psychologists are mostly professor-looking bookish types who don't get a lot of women.
I have to disagree. I know a psychologist who was a man *****. He changed his life around, but back in the day, wow. He got a lot a 'tang.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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as much time as you guys are here you dont' know antyhing

1) Rollo T is a professioanl Psychologist

2) Penkitten and Gio are married

3) Star8up does something with real estate and strippers....i don't know how he puts the two together but it's ovbiously working for him
 

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^^
I was thinking of Fransisco, who's either a shrink of a professor of psychology (he's a private guy), but yeah, Rollo (the moderator) has also at least been a counselor at some point.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Working in the field pretty much requires a doctorate. I bet guys who are professional psychologists are mostly professor-looking bookish types who don't get a lot of women.

Exactly. I rather learn from guys who actually know how to create attraction and press the emotional buttons to get the desired result, than from any expert who's only qualification is a PhD.

While these guys spend hours doing research and suckin' on battery juice in their basement, I am going back for seconds and thirds with the ladies.

If these guys are not out there sarging and proving their theories in the field, I have very little use for straight psychological mumbo jumbo. That is like asking Bill Clinton for advice on marital fidelity. Or having George W. Bush help you prepare for the SAT's.

With that being said, most of the guys speaking that way here, are not getting laid much either.
 

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With that being said, most of the guys speaking that way here, are not getting laid much either.
Amen Brother:yes:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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