"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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There's so much amateur psychology going on around here

beastmaster79

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handle you sound like a douche.

many people have intellectual pursuits as hobbies. understanding women is a passion of mine which i think i share with many on this board. even though there is some good research about attraction out there and i believe it is subject that is gaining popularity, i don't think academia will ever support figureing out how to bone chicks. thats why we break it down here. analysis is healthy and stimulating as long as it's matched with action.

Interceptor, I liked your post.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yeah i speak from experience not psychology. I simply come here to help the few players who actually need help. The other reason is for entertainment purposes because it's damn obvious that a majority of the "dj's" around here don't know a damn thing about game, women or getting laid. LOL i saw one topic a few days ago about guy's shouldn't dance because thats a feminine thing. I stopped reading after that. The ignorance of members around here never surprises me and i always get a good laugh.
 

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Yeah, sure, and all "qualified" people have the answers and excellent personal lives ... or not. Doing what works is a lot simpler than TRYING to explain why. I'll stick with how and let virgin eggheads argue why endlessly, mkay?
 

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backbreaker said:
as much time as you guys are here you dont' know antyhing

1) Rollo T is a professioanl Psychologist

2) Penkitten and Gio are married

3) Star8up does something with real estate and strippers....i don't know how he puts the two together but it's ovbiously working for him
I think that plasticsurgen is some sort of a doctor or something to that effect.

A lot of other posters are just going to school.

A few live outside of the USA.
 
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backbreaker said:
as much time as you guys are here you dont' know antyhing

1) Rollo T is a professional Psychologist
This explains his wordiness and pontificating! I imagine he smokes a pipe while he posts. :rolleyes:

backbreaker said:
as much time as you guys are here you dont' know antyhing

2) Gio and Penkitten are married.
I feel sorry for the Kitty Kat!!


backbreaker said:
as much time as you guys are here you dont' know antyhing

3) Star8up does something with real estate and strippers....i don't know how he puts the two together but it's ovbiously working for him
Damnnnnnn, he runs a wh@re House? I always thought so!!!!!

backbreaker said:
as much time as you guys are here you dont' know antyhing

4) Last Man Standing is PuertoRican_Lover and he gives the most and best insight to us young ones who are lost in the wilderness!
You got this one right :up:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It is Francisco who is the psychopath, errrrrr, psychologist - he admitted doing psychological "social" experiments on this forum through his probing questions and sometimes outlandish remarks to get a "reaction"! We are freaking lab animals here, fellas!!
 
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