'There's billion of women of there' lie.

[thewarrior]

I tend to overthink and overanalyze common advice. I think the phrase there's billions (or millions) of women available to you is the biggest crock someone can tell a man.

First, let's forget about 3rd world countries. I'm sure most men in developed countries won't be interested in gaming a woman living in a straw house.

Second, let's cut out the REALLY ugly and/or disfigured people. Maybe some guys care about personality, but most guys need a woman to look a LITTLE attractive.

Third, if you're not attracted to a certain race of people, let's cut out that whole country. For me, I'll nix China/Japan/Korea and Africa.

Fourth, how much money you have will have a direct impact on how many women you can meet. If you don't have money to take lots of vacations, then you're basically stuck with the women in your city/town and surrounding area.

Fifth, not every women you meet will like you...so let's say after you cut out everyone YOU don't like and/or not available to meet, the rest in your area and social group has to like you.

Therefore, you don't have millions or billions of choices. It's more like a few thousand women who are potential mates.

What do you think?

 

[worship]

It's still millions... which is enough.

 

[Captain]

What saying that means:

1. It doesn't matter if you fail with one woman, because there are many, many more out there.
2. Every woman is replaceable.

There are still +100 million potential women out there. How many you meet is entirely up to you.

 

[pooparu]

I tend to overthink and overanalyze common advice. I think the phrase there's billions (or millions) of women available to you is the biggest crock someone can tell a man.

First, let's forget about 3rd world countries. I'm sure most men in developed countries won't be interested in gaming a woman living in a straw house.

Second, let's cut out the REALLY ugly and/or disfigured people. Maybe some guys care about personality, but most guys need a woman to look a LITTLE attractive.

Third, if you're not attracted to a certain race of people, let's cut out that whole country. For me, I'll nix China/Japan/Korea and Africa.

Fourth, how much money you have will have a direct impact on how many women you can meet. If you don't have money to take lots of vacations, then you're basically stuck with the women in your city/town and surrounding area.

Fifth, not every women you meet will like you...so let's say after you cut out everyone YOU don't like and/or not available to meet, the rest in your area and social group has to like you.

Therefore, you don't have millions or billions of choices. It's more like a few thousand women who are potential mates.

What do you think?

Um...why would you forget about third world countries. For one, just because they are from there doesn't mean they live there, and even if they are if they are clean and treat you how you deserved to be treated I don't give a **** if the girl comes from Mars.

Two, most people aren't really ugly or disfigured. There's a large portion of them but there are by far more "attractive" people than "ugly".

Third, that's just stupid. I'm attracted to hot women. I don't really care (or can tell the difference) what race people are, especially women, I'm looking at what all *****es share, lips breast ass and thighs.

Fourth, that would be true if no one else travelled I guess. But millions of people travel around the world daily, this mightve been true back in medieval times but all you have to do is go to a major city to meet people from new places.

Fifth...what? I mean I guess, but that would be applicable regardless of this statement or not so it doesn't really make your point.

Even with all those variables you listed you still have to realize that America, Europe, Russia, and alot of developed South America and canada would still probably provide over 500mil+ women for your choosing, so either way its far too many for you to go through.

 

[Maxtro]

Thewarrior is somewhat correct.

If you don't do online dating, the amount of available women is limited to those around you. Then you limit them by their age and if they are married or not. Those two things remove a big chunk of women.

The next filter is weight. Which sadly living in the United States, tons of women are simply too fat. So now I've removed women that are married, over 25 and weigh more than 135 lbs. With those criteria I've basically ruled out 70% of the female population.

Now thewarrior has another issue, he's not into Asians or blacks. Depending on where you live, that can take out anywhere between a huge chunk of available women or it can have no affect. Living in the part of California that I do, removing Asians and blacks automatically disqualifies another 10% of women.

Which would leave me with women that are; unmarried, between 18 and 25, under 135 lbs, White or Hispanic only. That's basically 20% of total women. Now the fact that white girls are by far the most desired women means that there is tons of competition for them.

Luckily for me, I don't care what color the outside is as long as it's pink inside

If you don't like women of a certain race and they are pretty common where you live. You have two options. Move, or start liking them. There are some amazingly beautiful Asian and black girls out there. If you find one that also has a good personality, give it a shot.

 

[comic_relief]

holy fvcken hell... I come back to this site after two years on hiatus with my ex-gf and this is what is being posted :moon:

Alright, just playing. I remember a post similar to this years ago when I was just starting out.

Its more important to understand WHY that advice is out there. It is to give you a start for the idea that one woman or group of women is only a TINY fraction of the population. It is a counter against oneitis.

comic_relief

 

[Kal0051]

still the argument here is correct. That's why whenever someone says that I don't believe it.

 

[The Bat]

This is absurd.

All you guys sitting there b1tching about not enough women need to look at yourself in the mirror.

Yeah sure there aren't a billion women available for you to go through.

But how many women have you actually gotten with (i.e. fvcked)?

I'm going to bet less than 100.

Less than 10?

Bottom line: don't worry about how many women are available to you. Worry about how many women want you.

Sure all the fat and ugly chicks probably want you. But what about the hot women? How many of them want you?

Don't wish things were easier, wish you were better.

 

[MrLuvr]

I tend to overthink and overanalyze common advice. I think the phrase there's billions (or millions) of women available to you is the biggest crock someone can tell a man.

Do you take everything so literally? Basically all it means that there are PLENTY of women around.

How many women do you talk to in a day? 1? 5? 10?

Let us assume you talk to 4 to 5 women a day, which I doubt, even that only comes up to around 120 to 150 women a month.

Go, talk to 150 women FIRST, then come back and tell us that there are not enough women around.

 

[speakeasy]

Proximity is the biggest factor in who people date. Sure there are billions of women in the world, but if 99.9% don't live within driving distance, they might as well not exist.

 

[DJDamage]

Proximity is the biggest factor in who people date. Sure there are billions of women in the world, but if 99.9% don't live within driving distance, they might as well not exist.

That's true, so if you are living in a small town without a major metropolitan beside you then you are better off moving to another location. Most hot women tend to move to big cities from small towns, because they know that their good looks will take them to some distance in a small town but will take them much farther in the big city.

 

[Da Realist]

My question isn't why does it matter that there aren't as many availible women as you want to there to be, but more of how does this affect anything? That's like feeling sad because the beach doesn't have as much sand as you thought it did and telling everyone about it.