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There's a lot of people who when in an argument will call you out on things.....in which they have more of a problem of than you and will say it as if it's a matter of fact.In their head they BELIEVE they are better than you in what they're calling you out on. It's ironic.

Examples:
1) A meth head who lives day to day in a hotel telling a lawyer(after he asks why shes being crazy from being loud/irritable at a store in line ) who lives in a house he should look in the mirror cause clearly the lawyer has 'issues'

2) 19 year old kid who smokes, jacks off/watches porn, sits back and laughs with his buddy at work watching a customer argue loud to kid's boss while boss looks embarrassed /angry while trying to look professional........without doing anything to de-escalate......will tell YOU who is someone who doesn't have major bad habits/or other stuff kid does and is goal oriented, attracts beautiful women, has a degree....to 'grow up' during an argument when he walked up to you asking what you're mouthing to him from a distance as you tell him it was cuss words to hint you were going to talk to him in a bit in private about why he's consistently rude to you and pissing you off and what he should do instead.

OH THE IRONY.


Many people I've argued with project. They don't have insight about themselves on what they call you out on and/or they're just using words as a weapon to win the argument.

What do you think ...can you mention examples?
 

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you mean hypocrisy?

The democratic party.
Hypocrite..is that the word I'm looking for? I was thinking idiot,moron, immature. Whatever it is I've met so many and it stuns me that they don't see it in them.

Lol dude my bro-inlaw who I look up to said he's a far left socialist which I told him to not let us talk about politics.
I don't like politics and don't pick a side. I think I'd see myself moderate more on the conservative side or possibly libertarian.....

Social justice warriors , cancel culture, today's soft society today in general, people pleasing / get offended culture...........put me off from liberals. I think it's mostly far left who are like that but still. I don't like far right either. (Far means extreme if you didn't know that...a lot of people don't)
 

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you mean hypocrisy?

The democratic party.
I don't think it's hypocrisy.

Definition: the practice of claiming to have moral standards or beliefs to which one's own behavior does not conform; pretense.

According to this am I a hypocrite for trying to be a better practicing Muslim even though I've engage in pre-marital sex or other sins? There's no one who is religiously perfect...the big picture goal is staying and keeping oneself on a straight path whether it's coming from religious or spiritual view. I'm asking cause I've been called this before even though I'm a self-improvement type of guy for all areas in life including spiritually.

I've also white lie about stuff that is actually true that makes me look bad(saying I jack off and watch porn everyday even though I haven't for years, I don't have experience with women even though I've had girlfriends most guys would say are 8+/10 and date women who are attractive with nice careers, etc just to see their reaction and what they say or view me as, OR to secretly think how dumb they are for believing that which goes against stuff I mentioned in conversation that only someone who is the other way would know...
 
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I don't think it's hypocrisy.

Definition: the practice of claiming to have moral standards or beliefs to which one's own behavior does not conform; pretense.

According to this am I a hypocrite for trying to be a better practicing Muslim even though I've engage in pre-marital sex or other sins? There's no one who religiously perfect...it's all staying and keeping oneself on a straight path whether religiously or spiritually. I'm asking cause I've been flat out called this before even though I'm a self-improvement type of guy for all areas in life including spiritually.
Your a hypocrite if you think your not a sinner and thinking your somehow hollier than a person who gets caught sinning. In essense thinking your righteous in that regard is not being rightous at all but rather its being proud which pride is a sin.
 

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It's easy to judge than to be judged.

People don't like to judge themselves... Then they do that with others. Like a projection of their own pain.

That can be called hypocrisy... but in fact, it's just human being human. It seems that our mind use that as a defense to run away from pain... It's easy and pleasurable to blame/judge someone. Your ego feel so much happy about that.

And it can be also a way of trying to preserve your ego. As a defense... But this is not healthy for the person in the long run. That's why it's important to recognize it and internally evolve it.

People are just striving to survive, and this is what best fit them at the moment. Our pain and fears create some self defense mechanisms and this can lead us to some negative behaviors.

I used to feel anger by those people... After undestanding some points in my life, this is changing.

Calling them morons, hypocrites, idiots, etc... You're just reacting the anger they threw at you. And ok, they act like those kind of person... What I want to mean here is: Don't let this feeling take control over your thoughts. This is anger, just as those people has.

Hope that help you understand that.
 

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Someone who treats people like poo or a woman who h0rs around all week. then goes to church on Sunday and pretends to be all great and God loving for 60 minutes.
 
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