"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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There's a girl at work who i hardly see, wanna ask her out. couple probs though

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Don Juan
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I'm 17, work at a supermarket and there's this girl there that i REALLY like. First time i met her i was asked to show her how to stack stuff properly so i got to speak to her for a couple of minutes so she told me a bit about herself. she told me that she goes to a private school(she told me the actual school but i wont mention it), she's 15-16(not too sure now), in year 10 and i didnt find out much else.
that was about 4 months ago. i see her every now and then when i go in to work to check my shifts. i never have any shifts with her and i cant get any. Whenever i walk in she smiles and says hello. although i know now many of the hints to look for when a girl is attracted to you, i didnt know at the time.

and now she could just be smiling and saying 'hi' to be polite. im not sure what to do and i want to ask her out, but i dont want to blow it. im not even sure if she knows my name anymore. ive been obsessing over this girl for AGES now and i have to do something, but what??? please help me out.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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