"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

There planning on bringing MySpace back

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

FlexpertHamilton

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 10, 2020
Messages
3,158
Reaction score
3,680
Location
US
It's not going to be like it used to be. Any platform created now will have the same exact features as any other social media: AI algorithms, bots, ragebaiting, and OF farming accounts. Just look at Threads, it's literally NOTHING but ragebaiting/engagement baiting OF/bot accounts; there's a reason no one uses it.

There hasn't been a successful new social media platform in almost ten years, with Tiktok being the last major one (which many people don't realize was launched wayyy back in 2016).

I think social media is well past it's saturation point. The only platforms that I can see surviving over the years is FB, IG, and X, and IG/FB seems to be dying. X is the only platform that I can see maintaining a legitimate use case, though I can't stand it myself and have never once used it.
 
Last edited:

Bible_Belt

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 27, 2005
Messages
17,589
Reaction score
6,377
Age
50
Location
midwestern cow field 40
MySpace made its way back when Facebook required a .edu email to join. Then Zuck realized he could open it up to everyone to farm their data and make himself a billionaire.
 

MatureDJ

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 30, 2006
Messages
12,754
Reaction score
5,165
MySpace made its way back when Facebook required a .edu email to join. Then Zuck realized he could open it up to everyone to farm their data and make himself a billionaire.
I think the idea was to limit it to .edu so that it could work out the kinks.
 

MatureDJ

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 30, 2006
Messages
12,754
Reaction score
5,165
MySpace was basically Facebook before Facebook. The problem with MySpace is that there was too much leeway in allowing users to amp up their pages, and it looked like sheet.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

corrector

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 12, 2009
Messages
10,403
Reaction score
4,069
I don't remember much about 90s/00s slow dial-up internet. I remember you had AOL online, or you'd use a CD drive, which was the big thing back then to load up programs and connect to the internet. MySpace feels like a dinosaur. Don't feel much nostalgia to early internet days but they made life more interesting as a teenager/young adult. Even extremely low res graphics were a treat in those days.

 

MatureDJ

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 30, 2006
Messages
12,754
Reaction score
5,165
They also didnt control spamming. DJs, club promoters, and strippers would send everyone messages constantly.
Hmm, I never got any strippers messaging me. I would have asked if the gal does nightcaps. :)
 

BaronOfHair

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 14, 2024
Messages
5,666
Reaction score
3,110
Age
37
Hmm, I never got any strippers messaging me. I would have asked if the gal does nightcaps. :)
So even back in the 2000s, your enthusiasm for approaching out in the wild was STILL more non-existent than Corey Feldman's "acting" career, post-Licencse To Drive?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

RoadKing_Rabbit

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 10, 2024
Messages
411
Reaction score
384
Location
Northwest
I don't remember much about 90s/00s slow dial-up internet. I remember you had AOL online, or you'd use a CD drive, which was the big thing back then to load up programs and connect to the internet. MySpace feels like a dinosaur. Don't feel much nostalgia to early internet days but they made life more interesting as a teenager/young adult. Even extremely low res graphics were a treat in those days.

Commander Keen is the SH1T!!!!

I'll believe they're bringing it back when I see it back. And I don't think for one moment they won't riddle it to the point of not using it due to ad spamming and some incorporated form of algorithm doom scrolling while promising a "setting" that doesn't work to "turn it off."
 

Bible_Belt

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 27, 2005
Messages
17,589
Reaction score
6,377
Age
50
Location
midwestern cow field 40
The "online now" that would flash next to someone's name was stalkerrific.
cfkdy8icnz511.gif

Keep in mind this was in the day and age of desktop computers. So you knew someone was home, and not out with someone else.
 

Clockwerk50

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 5, 2023
Messages
2,349
Reaction score
2,421
Age
41
The "online now" that would flash next to someone's name was stalkerrific.
View attachment 15636

Keep in mind this was in the day and age of desktop computers. So you knew someone was home, and not out with someone else.
I went to a high school in Atlanta that was about 60-70% Black, and I ended up in the romanticized “gangster” social circle. My MySpace consisted of pictures of Dwyane Wade and Lebron James, Black models in bikinis because I was in love with Black women, and New York rap. Hindsight is 20/20, but I can see how it was detrimental to my own identity and love prospects at the time lol
 

Travel memoir21

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 20, 2020
Messages
2,056
Reaction score
1,164
Age
40
Location
Rio Grande Valley, Texas
Lol....I wonder if EMO will make a resurgence if it ever does come back...I remember just by staring at the screens back in the day....it seemed rather cliquey and popular at the time.....I wonder what subculture will replace it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Top