“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
There needs to be a DJ Bible for online dating
- Thread starter bobbob
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
cannibustacap
Don Juan
David DeAngelo had good reasoning for online dating. He said HB10s etc are tired of finding guys just trying to fux them in bars, clubs, etc. So they turn to the internet where they can find the right man (AFC, they don't know any better).
So, we can sabatoge that plan and DJ them there.
akindofblue
Don Juan
A bit of advice:
You have to market and sell yourself. I actually put a profile up of a reasonably attractive girl, just to see what kind of responses it would get. Within a day, my mailbox was swamped. Mostly by meatheads with lines like, "Hey, I thought your profile looked interesting" or "Yur cute." Some just sent the same message to every girl, which ain't gonna work.
You have to stand out and make her first screening.
How?
1) Your first picture has to be top notch (try to get at least one full body shot. Nobody wants a fatty)
2) The title of your e-mail has to let her know that you're what she's looking for,
3) Your e-mail has to be tailored to her
4) profile has to grab her attention.
A good e-mail title would be:
"Dashingly charming 24-yr. old Guy in Newport Beach"
With this title, you've let her know that
1) you're local
2) you're not some 40-year old dude looking for young meat
3) you've got a bit of confidence and are willing to be playful with words
#1 and #2 are, I guarantee you, the most annoying aspects of online dating. I got tons of e-mails from girls that lived a kabillion miles away or who were not in the age bracket I was after.
Also, don't go for the number on the first e-mail. Let her get some time to get acquainted. At least wait until the second, though I sometimes found most girls felt more comfortable on the third.
I might some real quality girls when I dated online. Definitely some cuties, and one I ended up dating for several months.
guys, but if someone is that good looking they probably wouldn't need to resort to online introductions anyway. The owners/shareholders of the bigger sites are getting wealthy though, so it works for them at least...
cannibustacap
Don Juan
Me: hi
Her: hi
me: soooooo whats up? **** this bye.
what do you guys even talk about? I just don't feel any vibes online. It throws me off. Damn when I think about it, I don't even know what to talk about when talking in real life. I dont' know how I've gotten by all these years.
EDIT: Its partly because I don't like to ask "job interview" style questions like "How old are you" "Where were you born" "what do you do for a living" "whats your favorite hobbies"
I just hate those questions, I like getting to meaty questions like sexual experiences and things that spark emotion. Its hard to get to that though off the bat.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
squirrels
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TURN OFF THE COMPUTER FOR FIVE F**KING MINUTES AND GO FIND REAL WOMEN!!
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
There is a lot of truth to this. I did notice that my face to face game went up several levels after learning the rules of successful online dating. Actually, the rules are the same however you need to focus on substance more so while online than you do face to face. Either way, success can be had in both markets.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Even though you own an internet company, you have no idea what being a real DJ is all about. A real DJ has game no matter the medium. He has no limits what so ever.
What about the DJs who say dance clubs are worthless? Is it because NO ONE can have game in a club or is it that THEY have no game in a club?
How about DJs who are afraid to talk to women of other races? Now what kind on nonsense is that? Talk about missing out on variety.
To many guys are so limited in their skills that they tend on only focusing in one area to meet women. If that's all they can do, so be it. But true success isn't dependent on where you are, all that matters is who you are.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
TooColdUlrick
Master Don Juan
no, i personally don't get your point. more and more women, even the hotter ones, and especially the younger ones, are online, in chats, etc.
rule #1 for the DJ, go where the women are.
MagicDonJuan
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