there isnt a concrete answer for everything

[aBAzLLnA]

there isnt! for every action there is a reaction, and there are limitless actions you can take, therefore there are a limitless amount of reactions.

start thinking for yourself, and try not to go word by word what the boards say. if you go word by word, youre just limiting your actions. instead, use it as a guide.

just five minutes ago i read a post where someone was asking for help and replies were given, a sufficient amount of information was relayed but yet this person wanted to READ something on this site that gave a CONCRETE answer. not everything in this world is black and white, most things depend on what you personally think!

people need to stop thinking of "ok how am i gonna DJ this chick" and more of "ok what do i want to do? and what do i want from her?"

this post may not make any sense right now cuz im kinda frustrated.

my main point is that when you come across a problem, stop and think before acting or posting for that matter. 75% of the time the true answer lies in what YOU want and how bad YOU are willing to get it.

~ivan

 

[8ball]

I disagree.

There *is* a concrete answer to every problem you will ever have with a woman.

They are all programmed to behave the same way.

Once you know the programming, the rest is cake.

But you have to know how women are wired.

That's the tough part.

 

[El Campeon 56]

There exists a basic set of guidelines and concepts that apply to every women. They are a broad set and are open for interpretation but in all seriousness one can act the same way to every women with a large degree of success if they just alter their game slightly.

 

[MDgood]

Originally posted by El Campeon 56
There exists a basic set of guidelines and concepts that apply to every women. They are a broad set and are open for interpretation but in all seriousness one can act the same way to every women with a large degree of success if they just alter their game slightly.

That sums it up pretty nicely. As I've posted here a few times before, every normal human on this planet acts a certain way under certain circumstances, even though they're different people. Our circumstances bend us one way or another, and it makes our behavior relatively predictable.

Think of it this way: If it were not this way, this board wouldn't exist in the first place. Heck, the entire science of psychology would not exist if people did not behave a certain way under certain circumstances.

Why would we be successfully trading advice about women if we could not predict the way they'd act?

 

[Ronin I]

I kind of agree with the original post.

All to often we get up in overanalyzing a woman's actions or inactions (I myself have been very guilty of this) and we search for a simple answer to a very complicated set of circumstances.

"Why didn't she call when she said she would? She made eye contact and looked down..what does that mean? Blah, Blah, Blah"

It is the nature of man to often misattribute a person's actions as being solely based on their personality without considering the circumstances. Again often the circumstances can be very, very complicated meaning that there is no right or wrong answer to a particular question.

There exists a basic set of guidelines and concepts that apply to every women. They are a broad set and are open for interpretation but in all seriousness one can act the same way to every women with a large degree of success if they just alter their game slightly.

I agree with this statement to an extent - but the words BASIC and BROAD should not be underemphasized.

Heck, the entire science of psychology would not exist if people did not behave a certain way under certain circumstances.

Very true, but the science of psychology is still in its infancy and there is still MUCH about the mind that we are not even close to understanding. Besides, a lot of psycholgy is a bunch of non-sensical post hac reasoning.

In the end my fellow DJs, I maintain that whatever issues you may have with women as long as you stay true to yourself and respect yourself, you can't go wrong.

 

[MDgood]

Originally posted by Ronin I
I kind of agree with the original post.

All to often we get up in overanalyzing a woman's actions or inactions (I myself have been very guilty of this) and we search for a simple answer to a very complicated set of circumstances.

Very correct... it should be noted that in order to understand a woman's actions, you have to separate your own desires away first. The irony is when we're trying to be objective about a woman's actions in the middle of our trying to do a very subjective action: Get her in our bed.

We risk what is known as the "subjective fallicy": We want something to be true so much that we begin to believe it is true. Nowhere is this done more often than when trying to get a girl.

I have to admit that, although I am a master of spotting when a woman is interested in another guy, I am near helpless when trying to see if a woman I'm interested in is interested back in me.

 

[nistelrooy]

For those of you who are scientifically trained, try recalling Occam's Razor.
Commonly used to debunk paranormal activities and provide answers for unexplainable phenomenons, it states that:

"The simplest explanation is usually the truest"

Girl never returns your call? Wants to be just friends? Why?? She ain't interested.

Anyways,

The irony is when we're trying to be objective about a woman's actions in the middle of our trying to do a very subjective action: Get her in our bed.

Thats precisely why we have to seek other guys opinions on this board. Because they will have the more objective view.

At best, you can predict things to a certain extent. Some things are very sure to occur, but others aren't so. The only guarantee you have in this life is that one day you'll die.

 

[iqqi]

They are all programmed to behave the same way

Huh? would you say the same about men?

i don't agree at all. if that was the case, then this board wouldn't need to exist because we would already know everything. people do NOT behave the same way! WTF?

 

[aBAzLLnA]

ahh great replies!

They are all programmed to behave the same way

to an extent they are programmed to behave the same way, but of course they are all different and WILL have behave differently in the same situation.

All to often we get up in overanalyzing a woman's actions or inactions (I myself have been very guilty of this) and we search for a simple answer to a very complicated set of circumstances.

yes, this basically what my post is trying to say...in one level:

try not tooverthink the simple situation and coming up with a
complicated answer to an easy question!

if everyone on this board could just live by this, dealing with the situation would be so hectic and nerve wrecking (spelling?).

There *is* a concrete answer to every problem you will ever have with a woman.

i disagree. this statement simplifies the complexity of human nature. (wow lol, sooo formal).

But you have to know how women are wired.

exactly, but each women has its own differnt wiring

~ivan

 

[myfriendblu]

Originally posted by nistelrooy
For those of you who are scientifically trained, try recalling Occam's Razor.
Commonly used to debunk paranormal activities and provide answers for unexplainable phenomenons, it states that:

"The simplest explanation is usually the truest"

Girl never returns your call? Wants to be just friends? Why?? She ain't interested.

Beautiful, just beautiful..... Couldn't have said it better myself. There are a basic, similar behavior pattern that all people tend to follow. Sure, there are a little differences from each person depending on the circumstances in which there were raised/psychological development, but most people do react in very similar fashion.