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JdelaSilviera said:
I have on my facebook, a girl or two that are on the verge of being morbidly obese. I also have a guy in the same situation.

Of course you easily guess what I´m about to write, the girls get d*ck everytime they want, while this guy is probably a virgin at 30 yo. Although I don´t think being a virgin is something to be ashamed, it should make one pause, because no guy at 30 would want to be in this situation.

One of the girls, changes boyfriend about every two months. Having had of course more partners that many of good looking guys I know. And we are talking about a girl who is just repulsive, although I feel bad for saying this, the girl has a big responsibility on how she looks.

This women entitlement so much talked on the foruns is something men deserve, because men create it. You only need to have half a **** to know how weak women are when you shout at them, and how they are put in place.
Men as a whole have absolutely NO standards and that´s what it makes more difficult to get women, than it should. We think the more we lower our standards the easier it will be, wrong, at the moment fatties have average guys, cute girls will demand Leo Di Caprio.. Also you´ll have less atractive women since they let themselves go.

This craziness about male bodybuilding is quite recent, and is of course a trend highly correlated with new women. They are much pickier and guys are becoming obsessed. Almost every girl between 18-23 I know has a boyfriend who is super athletic. One could talk about the 25+ couples, but we all know why that happens. If we were super picky, 90% of women would be squatting heavy, to get super hot butts, and sweating at the gym. But because we are so easy, they spend all day shopping and eating crap.

You also wouldn´t respect women, if they out went of their way to do everything you demanded, just to get some d*ck. Also the more partners you have, the more you see people as "numbers", and start lacking compassion.

How can average, and above average looking, who kill themselves at the gym are going for women like this, is something really disturbing if you think about it. This is where the desire to have sex becomes almost a mental disease...
A-lot of it has to do with the fact that so many guys aren't "awake". They're trying to play this game by the same set of rules it was played with back in the 50's. It doesn't work that way anymore. Men had options back in the day because women didn't. Now that women have the same type of mindset and are our equals, the rules have totally changed.

I'm not against women being our equals either. I'm really not. What I am against is guys refusing to man up and play by a new set of rules, i.e. refusing to look reality right in it's cold, dead face. It's hard for a-lot of guys to do. I understand that. But it has to be done.

So many guys are lost in regards to what they should do with themselves. They go about their daily routine and think something is missing. They're lonely, and they're parched for female affection. So they'll settle for anything. So what if she's fat? she's going through some problems at work. I'll let that slide. Hey at least she tugged on my c ock last night.

But the reality of the situation is that in this new world of ours, men are being forced to step up and carve out a life that they want. It is no longer being handed to them like it was guys who were our age back in the 50's. That's why, in a way, I think it's a good thing what is happening right now. The weak are being separated from the pack. Men who don't have the balls to TRY and change their approach are dying off. Also, part of these new rules involve calling women out on their b.s. They're equals now. Enough of this "she's a woman, they're different. That's how they are. As a man, I can't get upset with her for that." NO MORE. If you're disrespected. You address it. PERIOD.

Another problem is that this feeling that so many men feel they're lacking, female affection, is one aspect of this life. Figuring out what you want to do with yourself, finding your passion, and putting everything on the line to get it is, dare i say, MUCH MORE rewarding than anything a woman could ever offer you. Ironically, it also leads to many more quality opportunities and interactions with the opposite sex. That's the problem with thinking that sex and relationships is priority #1 in life, it kills your chances of ever really appreciating those things for what they are in a healthy positive light.

To be successful with women who you are sexually attracted to it, it's going to take the following: TESTICLES (I.E. BALLS) and PERSEVERANCE. That's it.

I've found though that strictly focusing on women is only 1/4 of the battle though. You've got to get your life together and then it'll all start to fall in line. But again, some guys just can't handle it.
 

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Jair213 said:
THAT'S the exact thing I thought.

How the hell are you guys coming down to this observations.
Lol, sorry. I meant half decent girls in the 18-23. It´s really ridiculous.
 
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