"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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There is NOTHING wrong with picking up chicks!

Krassus

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One of the most common limiting beliefs i tend to spot in beginners is the belief that there's something wrong with picking up chicks. Listen, NOTHING is further from the truth! Wanting to be with members of the opposite sex is the most natural thing in the world. If you do NOT have this urge, then you are, by definition, sick. So guys, cut the ****. If you're on your way to meet girls and someone asks where you're going, say it like it is! Tell them you're going to the club, or the mall, or whatever to meet women! How will they react? Who cares?! What do your care more about: opinions or RESULTS?

Listen, when you're trying to hide your intentions, girls will spot it in an instant. They're better at reading body language than you'll ever be. If you come up to them with some half-assed excuse, like asking for directions, they'll know you're full of it, and think you're a loser for not having the balls to even admit that you find them attractive. With all honesty, even walking up to chicks with a big grin, extending your hand and saying "hi!! i'm picking up girls! you're not gonna run away like the other two, are you? " will work better than trying to hide your intentions. You may come off as a player (albeit one who'd probably be fun to be around), but at least you won't come off as a liar!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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