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There is Nothing Wrong With A Movie Date

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I'm not sure why everyone seems to hate Movie dates on the internet, I just went to see the New Spider Man movie with that Feminist Girl.


It was great, I didn't enjoy the movie that much so i just made out with her instead during half of it. It wasn't too crowded but we were at the back. After the movie we had a dinner date and talked about the movie for a bit and then made out more in her car. I didn't go all the way since i dont have my own place and she doesn't either.



I'm just not sure why people complain about movie dates, what exactly is wrong with them?
 

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Movie dates are better than dining out but worse than action dates.

Women usually don't prefer action dates, if she does go out w you on one, she might have high interest.

Also you have less chances to mess up as you won't be talking too much.


Fyi, you could've used that money to book a motel room instead.
 

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Movie dates are better than dining out but worse than action dates.

Women usually don't prefer action dates, if she does go out w you on one, she might have high interest.

Also you have less chances to mess up as you won't be talking too much.


Fyi, you could've used that money to book a motel room instead.
3rd date is going to be for a motel for sure, I've never done an action date in my entire life.
 

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I'm just not sure why people complain about movie dates, what exactly is wrong with them?
You can't talk during them and build something. Talking is a good thing in the early stages.

you could've used that money to book a motel room instead.
Motel rooms can be an option. @Zimbabwe will enjoy banging out a tatted feminist in a motel room.
 

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If you had an enjoyable movie date, then that's all that matters. I think it's all a matter of personal preference.

Although I've had my own place for decades, there were times (back when I did on line dating) that I'd meet a gal halfway between my city and theirs. There were times when I did the motel thing, but if you're unsure you two will be sleeping over night, there is a cheaper alternative.

Let's say that you two are hanging out at a bar. Make sure to park your car further away (where there's less car traffic to pull beside you and also not under some bright light). After leaving the bar (or what ever place) you two start making out. Eventually, the windows will steam up (providing privacy). Most cars these days have reclining seats. While you are making out with her (while she's in the passenger seat) casually place your right arm behind the seat .. while your left arm is on the recline lever (but still continue necking) and then gradually ... *gradually* allow the seat to recline. Then make your way over to her seat (at this point it's reclined).

Although it's not the most 'romantic' setting, if you do enough foreplay, the end result can still likely occur.

We're rootin' for you. Good luck!
 

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At my age, I thought I knew most if not all the tricks. Never tried this, but you can bet that I will incorporate it.

I appreciate you sharing this tip.
No problem. Can easily start by holding her hand on the armrest. Then start making little gentle circles on the back of her hand with your fingertips. As lightly as possible.

I used that on a first date once. I could tell it was having an effect because she started playing with her hair off and on at the same time.

After the movie, we got back to the car, and she jammed her tongue down my throat. Ended up at a motel shortly after. This was years ago. I was still very inexperienced then, and I was shocked because it worked TOO well. A first date pull was the last thing on my mind at the time lol.
 
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If you mean for a first (or even second) date, I would say this will generally lead to more awkward exchanges more so than it will to positive results (escalation, sex, etc.). You want her attention on you - not on a movie screen.

Now if you are on Date 4+ and have already banged, then sure.
 

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I'm not sure why everyone seems to hate Movie dates on the internet, I just went to see the New Spider Man movie with that Feminist Girl.


It was great, I didn't enjoy the movie that much so i just made out with her instead during half of it. It wasn't too crowded but we were at the back. After the movie we had a dinner date and talked about the movie for a bit and then made out more in her car. I didn't go all the way since i dont have my own place and she doesn't either.



I'm just not sure why people complain about movie dates, what exactly is wrong with them?
Lil D**ky! $ave Dat Money! :lol:

Anyway, I don't think there is anything wrong with that. It's almost always a safe bet: Don't have to talk (much), dark, intimate, cheap, etc.

Is that my go-to? No. But it is not a bad choice. Not sure who is complaining about movie dates but they are a classic date since the beginning of parking lot cinemas and will always be.


Modern Man Advice
 
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It's just not a good FIRST DATE. First dates are about getting to know each other in a short duration low cost, low investment setting. That said, I had a rockin' makeout in high school when I met some girl to watch Wayne's World. Got to second base in her Trans Am on the top level of the parking garage.
 

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If her interest is high, it doesn't really matter what you do or where you take her.
 

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I'm not sure why everyone seems to hate Movie dates on the internet, I just went to see the New Spider Man movie with that Feminist Girl.

It was great, I didn't enjoy the movie that much so i just made out with her instead during half of it. It wasn't too crowded but we were at the back.
The movie is 150 minutes long. In the middle of COVID you told your Feminist date she is going to stick her tongue down your throat for 75 min and she has no choice?

The movie has made $1,600,000,000 dollars. Your showing wasn’t that crowded?

Some guys are true alpha dogs.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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From the second date forward, movie dates are OK.

But movie as the first activity on the 1st date? No. It's a big mistake.

The only exception is when, let's say the two of you are having a good time over food and drinks on the 1st date, and then you suggest the movie afterward (change of venue) so you could make out and make each other horny, but that could also count as a "second" date.

Read my post about the FWB I'm having. I banged her on our 1st date after we had some light food & drinks and then movie.
 
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I’m going on one next week. Girls are too picky on the first date and will look for every little reason to disqualify you. A Movie date is low energy and mysterious.
 
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