"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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There is no such thing as Artificial Confidence.

J

Just Another Guy....

Don Juan
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I've read many posts about how new clothes or a new look only provides you with 'artificial confidence' To be honest, I'm not even sure what that is.


Recently I've been changing my life in many ways, one way is by changing my appearance. I've added a watch, necklace, tons of new clothes, hats.... etc. And it's done nothing but make me feel much better about how I look.


It's not fake, it's not dying off, I just feel much more confident when I dress well.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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