"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There is no safe haven

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There is no safe haven, the only thing you got is you and your own life. Everything else is a temporary luxury.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Some people do get lucky but most of us don't. I know a few and they have it all right you would say. But once you are there, once you got what you think you want it is not all that great. And chasing it is very counter productive, it makes you lose what you think you want and feel bad about it, while there is much more to life than that.

If you start winning in your own life for nobody but you and make that the most important thing. Girls will be all over you and make you feel tempted to switch things around. But if you never do you will have a crazy happy life, don't get tempted to settle down and drop it, when girls pull on you in response to this it will be hard, because they will it is extremely powerful but hard at the same time. Just don't give in knowing this. And start winning at life.
 

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You can read this forum and learn some tricks but in the end it is all about the inner game and confidence.
 
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