"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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There is no change, without sacrifice.

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Warrior74

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Here I am on a Friday evening, everyone is out on the town tonight. People are enjoying labor day weekend. There are events, parties and all sorts of things going on. And you know what I am doing? Working. Why? Because there is no change without sacrifice and pain.

If you want to earn more money, you have to give up something. Usually it's time. Sometimes its family. Sometimes its women. Having fun and a social life, yah...not gonna happen for a while.

If you want to lose weight, its going to be suffering. You will be hungry at times, you will be tired. You will be sore. There will be pain. It's the price you pay.

Chasing skirt? There will be rejection, flakes, bad dates, bullsh1t and drama as you learn. Are you willing to pay that price?

What pain are you willing to go through to reach you goal? Or anything for that matter? That's the real question. Me, I'll give up all of my time and energy to be on a better financial footing next year. It's this or death. Cause I can't go on living from check to check at my age.

How about you? What can't you go on living with? What are you gonna do about it?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm going to go beastmode, self-destruct. I'm going to cheer in times of hardship and in the face of adversity. I'm going to go that extra mile when I feel tired, I'm going to light myself up and put a grenade on every seat I sit on, it's going to be hell to get to that heaven. Thanks for the reminder Warrior.
 
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Exactly. Good post.

First day sophomore year of college starts on tuesday I will do well in all my classes this semester but most importantly algebra. Not since my sophmore year in HS have I made a B in a marking period. Im willing to put in the hard work not only because I have to pass this class, but for myself. Its just numbers.

I just got my first job and am going to start this week, I am going to go that extra mile and do the best I can and put 110% effort into everything.

I choose to be involved as much as I can this year in clubs and stuff too. I will also make time to go out and approach. You have to go out and be the guy you want to be, not today or tomorrow but now. Don't second guess yourself, you cannot fail if you truly apply yourself. Fvck television and multiple hours of online browsing. I can catch up on the few shows I watch when I have time, same goes for the forums I go on. No offense SS :D.

Who the hell do you think you are!? You can do this.
 
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