"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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there is hope after all .....

KneghtRyder

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Saw this black dude, nothing special to him. NOt great looking about as good as me. NOt dressed especially great. Kinda average hieght. Looks kinda dumB NOTHING special..Had a hat on ( perhaps bald ?)

BUt he has this hot white chick with him as his girlfriend in the line at deli.

THat today gave me motivation to just out there and act like you are a king really confident and be a man -- basically go out there shooting. that there are 'cases' of success out there and I am not fighting a battle marked for loss. Perhaps all I need to do is try more and be more confidently

my hair sucks big time, I m Indian , could be better looking, beer belly...so I've got couple strikes against me -- I Do get attention when I wear my hat ...but when I take it off -- attention drops alot...

and It gave me hope that there could be success at the end of the tunnel if I Just stick with it and learn and practice and keep improving -- one day we might get what you want and be REALLY happy....
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So you're saying you'd be happy with some hot white chick? Jeez...get a life.
 

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Get your lazy ass in shape and shave your head. If you aren't feeling happy, working out is known as one of the best confidence boosters.

Chicks do NOT dig a beer belly. Let your muscles take the attention off of your unpleasant hair.
 

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Serialized3 said:
So you're saying you'd be happy with some hot white chick? Jeez...get a life.

I would be happy that I succeeded in my mission; this mission . If I learned/mastered the skills that I could use for the rest of my life.

I will never get back the model looks I had when I was 18, but I will be able to never be lonely on a friday night, and I will always have a booty to call when I want ...


white chicks are a little tougher to game because they're in high demand everyone wants them
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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