"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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There is another guy in her life.. What now???

mka

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Hey Guys,

I have met a girl..
We both feel a strong emotional connection (Deep rapport)

Their is only one problem..

There is someone else in her life which she does not want to hurt
They call each other every day
Only thing I am lucky with.. Is that he is living in paris...
And yes.. It is her boyfriend.. because she will go from time to time to paris and now he is coming to amsterdam within 10 days..
and with this guy she also has a strong emotional connection..

She told me (Subcommunicated) that I am on second place..
and if it goes out with him.. she will be with me....
What she also told me.. is that she cannot feel feelings for 2 guys at the same time...
I told her I dont give a **** that she is having with this guy...

We still have contact...
I think I will have to raise the sexual attraction Kino and kiss closing... and the emotional connection higher then his..

Look... I dont make this is problem.. she does make it a problem..
The only option I have..
is to wait that this guys leaves from her life.
How I am going to do this.. is still the question...

LOL... She doesn't want to be the badgirl...
and she told... I have always been a good girl
She always tels me that she has a good heart and is honest..
She is from Thailand...

Groetjes Master knight adventurer....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hound_of_Love

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It's you she's trying not to hurt. Who wants to be second best?

Move on and find someone else. You'll only find pain down the route you're going.
 

JonJack

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Yeah dude. You are indeed second best. Although only because she has the other dude. But then again, what the hell are you gonna do? Wait till she decides to leave him after they have been married for 40 years and he passes away due to natural causes?

You sound like you're knee deep in this relationship and I can foresee that you will crash and burn over this one. Just remember to pick yourself up afterwards.
 

duttylove

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why are your wasting time on this girl. she is telling you that if things fail with her bf she will get with you! are you a man? if so you would not take this! start persuing single woman!
 

BigMike

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Originally posted by mka
She told me (Subcommunicated) that I am on second place..
and if it goes out with him.. she will be with me....
Do you like being her d*ck in a glass case?:p
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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mka

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yeah guys,

I know what you guys mean....
We are masters, we are pua's we suppose to avoid these ****..

There is only a difference betwean living a happy life with some girl you really like and not only wanting sex...
and ****ing 10 other woman....

Listen guys......

I will try to get something with this her.....
I will be the one that gives her a few more changes...
But I will not let her hurt me....

I am a pickup artist.....
And I am going to finish where I started....

I do want this girl...
so no excuses for me to not follow my heart right now..
and see where it ends....

Greatings master knight adventurer...
 
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