"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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There is always another girl

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JohnGalt

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This is mostly targeted to newer guys, but it is always good to keep in mind.

There is always another girl.

As long as you put yourself out there and meet people, there will always be another girl that you will be interested in, that is also interested in you.

It doesn't matter if you just came out of a long relationship, or have never even had a girlfriend, a new girl is always around the corner.

If you are having trouble because you are thinking about your past "failures," stop worrying right now, because the next woman is right here, and the quicker you sac up and go for it the quicker you will find her.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Good tip, i met a mad chick at the airport on the way back from QLD and i was to scared to get her number, and she lived right next to me in the next suburb. I regret it so much now, i wish i woulda just asked for her number, now i probably wont ever see her again. Oh well :eek:
 
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