There has been much debate.....

[myfriendblu]

Originally posted by XANEUS

WOMEN ARE LIKE MONKEYS... THEY SWING FROM TREE TO TREE NEVER LETTING GO OF ONE BRANCH UNTIL THEY HAVE LATCHED ONTO ANOTHER.

Most girls are terrified of being without a boyfriend. So they may be ready to leave, but they won't until they have a reason to.

I dunno if I agree with this statement. From my experience, and its been alot, its that if a girl cheats on her BF with you, she will eventually cheat on you with someone else. I have seen it happen with friends a million times.

Relationships are like a foot race. if you don't get off on solid footing and a clear path, your screwed. If it starts with drama, its gonna end with drama. I think cheating women are like thieves. If they have been known to cheat in the past, they really can enevr be trusted. they will cheat again. Like a thieving criminal.
Some of us have stolen stuff, and some of us haven't. The people that steal alot, often keep on stealing.

 

[becker]

I think that Xaneus' statement had to do with a girl not cheating, but dumping one guy for another.. To me, that's different since there is no cheating in this scenario, just dumping.

If the girl cheats on her BF, however, I agree, that chances are she may do it to you as well. A respectable girl would just break it off with the old BF before she gets with the next guy. Nothing wrong with that in my opinion.

 

[myfriendblu]

Originally posted by becker

If the girl cheats on her BF, however, I agree, that chances are she may do it to you as well. A respectable girl would just break it off with the old BF before she gets with the next guy. Nothing wrong with that in my opinion.

Agreed with that. Cheating girls can never really be reformed. Stealers will always steal, liars will always lie. Decent people will always be, well, decent.

 

[XANEUS]

Originally posted by becker
How did you get the girl to the point where she felt she could securely leave the old BF for you? Did you hang out with her much?

Two-Three "Dates" in each case.

 

[Player_Supreme]

"A DJ is someone who is dedicated to improving his life and minimalizing his flaws"


I don't think the original Don Juan would agree with this new aged definition of his name, but it does sound nice.

Unfortunately the real Don Juan seduced many women who were engaged, married or had suitors as they were called in those days. The original would go to great lengths just to accomplish his seductions.

I've heard alot of DJ's say something similar to what you posted above about being a DJ, and I've seen others say let's be honest here and admit we are guys who wanna go out and conquer women.

I am more inclined toward the latter. I do agree with improving your life and minimalizing flaws. I constantly read self improvement books for this purpose...which is where it should be, not on a site about getting laid.

I think we are talking about 2 seperate things.
a. getting laid
b. becoming a better person

Getting laid is about how do you score with the ladies. What techniques would you use...what convo styles should be used...ect..ect.

Becoming a better person...studying Anthony Robbins or any of the other success authors on the market today. I realize getting more successfull will allow you to attract a better quality of p*ussy, but you will still get played unless you know how to handle women, which is what this site is about. 1 thing and 1 thing only should be the focus here. Anything else leads to distraction and chaos...as you can see by the posting board at times.

These are only my personal beliefs and no reflection on the whole DJ philosophy. I haven't even read the bible yet. But I do know the real history of the real Don Juan. When I first saw the name I was excited.....until I started reading the posts...Now I am content to contribute what little I know about handling women whenever I can say something useful.

hmmm....maybe a seperate section for improving your life, similar to the health section would be in order here?

peace

 

[XANEUS]

um yeah... girls will switch... but they will cheat first. They have to know what they're switching to after all... (p.s. they'll also just cheat without even considering a relationship under many circumstances)...

basically my observation of late is that if your game is good enough and logistics aren't TERRIBLE you can have any girl you want. If this is true for me, it is also true for anyone with stronger game than my own. Think about it...

It scares me, but more and more I don't believe ANY girl is trustworthy. They are all potential victims of strong game.