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Master Don Juan
actually I feel like I'm coming back to these forums now- I dont wanna get trapped in an exclusive relationship. You guys go, I come back...how funny!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
There comes a time in a DJ's life
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THATS the attitude
Well, after taking my journey a month away from this site, i am back to share my experiences with you guys.
When i left, i really didnt have a big withdrawl from sosuave. i knew that i've learned most of the stuff here, and even if i did want to go back and read a couple of posts, i held myself strong and kept going.
Within this month i've been with more girls than i've been with in last 4 months. It's great to be a DJ, i tell ya. It is great to realize that you can get anygirl u see to get interested in you, and perhaps even want you
For the last month i've been going to clubs, going out with friends and girls, and enjoying the last month of my senior year in high school. I started going up to girls i like, dancing with them, joking with them. I didnt feel like any girl is better than me.
One thing i've heard on these forums was that a newbie on this site goes thru this "AFC=>*******=>AFC" i think i might have been playing with that formula for a bit, and even tho i'm not an *******, playing with girls was fun.
I've met many girls who kept telling me im an *******, while giving me more attention than i needed. Isnt it funny how you can just play with girl's head and her IL will skyrocket....
Of course i didnt come to this site to become and *******... i came here to change my life for the best.
After 1 month, i've learned that basically
It doesnt matter what everyone thinks of you. There are always gonna be idiots who hate you, and people who love you.
You shape your destiny, dont rely on some random chance or other people, take the lead and make your future.
What girls say they think of people can be sooooo far off what they really feel, its amazing.
Most of the good looking girls are attention *****s. if they give you ****, play with her.
You will not get every girl you want. Some girls just prefer a different type of guy than you. I got rejected at a party a couple days ago... and i didnt mind at all.
here is a good thing to learn for those kids who are still in HS
I know there is always this group of people in every school who are considered "cool". everyone wants to be in that group, but not everyone admits it.
I myself had been trying to be "cool" for 3 years of HS. it didnt really get me anywhere. BUT, this last 2 months i changed. i didnt care if this was the hottest girl in my school i was talking to, i was talking to her like a normal person. If this was some jock in front of me trying to give me ****, i stood for myself and told him to buzz off, and he did, seeing that i am mentaly stronger than him.
DO NOT TRY TO BE COOL, DO NOT BUY CLOTHES EVERYONE HAS, DONT ACT LIKE EVERYONE ELSE.
i've seen the wierdest punkiest chick become good friends with 3 hottest preppiest girls in my school within a week. how? she just came up and said "let's work together on this project, and showed that her inner self is nothing to be afraid of"
You want to talk to this hot girl in your school? go do it. You want to go to somebody's party but not sure if they want you there? come over and make them understand you are no worse of a person.
Well, so much for first impressions, cant wait for others to get back.
When i left, i really didnt have a big withdrawl from sosuave. i knew that i've learned most of the stuff here, and even if i did want to go back and read a couple of posts, i held myself strong and kept going.
Within this month i've been with more girls than i've been with in last 4 months. It's great to be a DJ, i tell ya. It is great to realize that you can get anygirl u see to get interested in you, and perhaps even want you
For the last month i've been going to clubs, going out with friends and girls, and enjoying the last month of my senior year in high school. I started going up to girls i like, dancing with them, joking with them. I didnt feel like any girl is better than me.
One thing i've heard on these forums was that a newbie on this site goes thru this "AFC=>*******=>AFC" i think i might have been playing with that formula for a bit, and even tho i'm not an *******, playing with girls was fun.
I've met many girls who kept telling me im an *******, while giving me more attention than i needed. Isnt it funny how you can just play with girl's head and her IL will skyrocket....
Of course i didnt come to this site to become and *******... i came here to change my life for the best.
After 1 month, i've learned that basically
It doesnt matter what everyone thinks of you. There are always gonna be idiots who hate you, and people who love you.
You shape your destiny, dont rely on some random chance or other people, take the lead and make your future.
What girls say they think of people can be sooooo far off what they really feel, its amazing.
Most of the good looking girls are attention *****s. if they give you ****, play with her.
You will not get every girl you want. Some girls just prefer a different type of guy than you. I got rejected at a party a couple days ago... and i didnt mind at all.
here is a good thing to learn for those kids who are still in HS
I know there is always this group of people in every school who are considered "cool". everyone wants to be in that group, but not everyone admits it.
I myself had been trying to be "cool" for 3 years of HS. it didnt really get me anywhere. BUT, this last 2 months i changed. i didnt care if this was the hottest girl in my school i was talking to, i was talking to her like a normal person. If this was some jock in front of me trying to give me ****, i stood for myself and told him to buzz off, and he did, seeing that i am mentaly stronger than him.
DO NOT TRY TO BE COOL, DO NOT BUY CLOTHES EVERYONE HAS, DONT ACT LIKE EVERYONE ELSE.
i've seen the wierdest punkiest chick become good friends with 3 hottest preppiest girls in my school within a week. how? she just came up and said "let's work together on this project, and showed that her inner self is nothing to be afraid of"
You want to talk to this hot girl in your school? go do it. You want to go to somebody's party but not sure if they want you there? come over and make them understand you are no worse of a person.
Well, so much for first impressions, cant wait for others to get back.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I stopped posting here for a brief while but last night, I stopped seeing this girl. We've went out for about two weeks and I managed to get in her pants four times. Yes, I am no longer a virgin. It started out at a party that she went to. The first time after, she asked if we were bf/gf and I said yeah and I tapped it that day and the day after. My friend invited me to this party. This girl told me that she was just hanging with her sister and her college friends as they are going to have some girls night thing. Come to find out, she was at the party and flirting around with a friend of mine. I'm not going to player hate, he didn't know about us (I kept it on the down low as I felt many people need not know)
I got miffed a bit but I wasn't going to make a scene so I countered by hitting on any decent looking girl there. She didn't notice. I noticed he'd leave and talk to his friends and she soon tagged along with him like a stray dog. A while after, she left and I noticed they made out in a way. I knew I was done with this ***** because she ruined it. The friend went up to me and was like 'Dude, this totally hot chick talked to me and we made out and I got her number.' I was thinking of telling him about how we were seeing eachother but I decided that we weren't going to see eachother so I said, 'Yeah, she's a fine piece of ass.'
I called her up and said I was at the party and XXXXX my friend got a phone number from this hot chick. She paused for 30-40 seconds. I had to keep down the laughter as I was almost about ready to laugh my ass off. She's like "Well....its good that he found someone after his break up with OOOOO." Another long pause. She sets up a booty call because she feels "horny." I decided I'd **** her like the slut she is and then break up with her. So I did her doggystyle and made her scream. I used to kind of do that slowly but I pumped her like a jackhammer. After that, she wanted me to suck on her boobs and thats when I confronted her. She was nearly in tears and I left her house. She has left messages on my machine and gave messages to her friends asking me to take her back but I told her friends 'I don't date sluts.'
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A nice anecdote for some reading. I'm not sad in any way as I got some p***y from a hot chick, owned her ass with the last time (it was the best time BTW), and I got some numbers today. I'm going to call one of them here soon. Anyway, I thought that I didn't need this site and all that but now I'm starting to see the true value of the site. Sosuave.com should never be a crutch for relationships. Ever. The purpose of this site to me is to improve yourself mentally and physically by being prepared for anything that a girl throws at you. Regardless of this site, I wouldn't have taken her back but I don't feel sad because I knew what I wanted from her and I knew she probably wasn't the LTR type. I will still be around now but it won't be nearly the amount. I'm currently concocting ideas as always for Analyzing the DJ v 1.2. I'm considering making this one an E-Book complete with images and zipped for offline downloads. I'll keep you updated on it though.
I got miffed a bit but I wasn't going to make a scene so I countered by hitting on any decent looking girl there. She didn't notice. I noticed he'd leave and talk to his friends and she soon tagged along with him like a stray dog. A while after, she left and I noticed they made out in a way. I knew I was done with this ***** because she ruined it. The friend went up to me and was like 'Dude, this totally hot chick talked to me and we made out and I got her number.' I was thinking of telling him about how we were seeing eachother but I decided that we weren't going to see eachother so I said, 'Yeah, she's a fine piece of ass.'
I called her up and said I was at the party and XXXXX my friend got a phone number from this hot chick. She paused for 30-40 seconds. I had to keep down the laughter as I was almost about ready to laugh my ass off. She's like "Well....its good that he found someone after his break up with OOOOO." Another long pause. She sets up a booty call because she feels "horny." I decided I'd **** her like the slut she is and then break up with her. So I did her doggystyle and made her scream. I used to kind of do that slowly but I pumped her like a jackhammer. After that, she wanted me to suck on her boobs and thats when I confronted her. She was nearly in tears and I left her house. She has left messages on my machine and gave messages to her friends asking me to take her back but I told her friends 'I don't date sluts.'
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A nice anecdote for some reading. I'm not sad in any way as I got some p***y from a hot chick, owned her ass with the last time (it was the best time BTW), and I got some numbers today. I'm going to call one of them here soon. Anyway, I thought that I didn't need this site and all that but now I'm starting to see the true value of the site. Sosuave.com should never be a crutch for relationships. Ever. The purpose of this site to me is to improve yourself mentally and physically by being prepared for anything that a girl throws at you. Regardless of this site, I wouldn't have taken her back but I don't feel sad because I knew what I wanted from her and I knew she probably wasn't the LTR type. I will still be around now but it won't be nearly the amount. I'm currently concocting ideas as always for Analyzing the DJ v 1.2. I'm considering making this one an E-Book complete with images and zipped for offline downloads. I'll keep you updated on it though.
lol...I didn't expect the relationship to last but I didn't think that she'd be ho'ing around like that. Who knows what she is doing. She said she had sex once when she was 13 and decided that was too young. She's 16 now but I often wondered how true that was since the first time I screwed her, there was no bleeding at all. I think she was lying to me all along but I didn't care too much as she was damn fine. Anyway, after I posted that I got numerous IMs from her friends asking for me to take her back. I told them what happened and they were like "wow, well she still wants you bad and she probably regrets doing that." I was like "The only thing she regrets is the fact that she did when I was there." Her one friend (who is maybe a 6) called me an ass and left. I didn't care.Originally posted by Oxide
you dont date sluts, u just **** em eh?
Tonight, I'm just going to call someone who I got the number from about 2-3 weeks ago. Time to see if the "out of sight, out of mind" is true or not.