"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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There are two types of "LJBF" Learn the difference kids!

Naughty Ninja

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There's two types of "let's just be friends" kids..Learn to know the difference.

1) Is she is just 'letting you down' nicely.

2) Is "If you play your cards right we could be fvck friends on the DL".


No matter which one is offered...they are both played the same way for the most part.

Always remain cool. Never let them see you get 'emo' at them friendzoning you and or 'excited' at the prospect of being offered 'fvck friends'.

Keep options open with meeting more chicks to not worry about either and KEEP CALM and learn to be Zen like and live for yourself and strive to improve to be the best person you can be.

In the end chicks will pick up the subtle clues without you EVER having to STATE ANYTHING about how 'confident' you are in yourself.

BECAUSE you will:

1) Be showing an air of confidence, non-neediness, and in control of yourself while not needing their approval nor presenting yourself as a possible 'problem' to the chick in the future.

2) You will be focused on improving yourself.

3) You will be gaming other chicks.

Always keep yourself in check and remain calm. Don't be a b1tch. Period. I'm telling you chicks will pick up on it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I agree and they usually re-appear from personal experience. When they see a guy living his life without them happily it really gets to them.
 

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Yes, you have to seamlessly integrate accepting that line right into the conversation.
 
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