backbreaker
Master Don Juan
I think point 2 hits the nail on the head. most guys just dont' believe in themselves. They don't believe they are worth while, they believe they are a dime a dozen and they dont' think that they bring anything to the table. sometimes they are right, but still.
a lot of the issues you have with the opposite sex shore up the second you develop a backbone. Situations that used to baffle you are now common sense. if i respect myself there is a certian way I'm just not going to be to be treated, rather it means getting the girl or not.
my problem was that I wanted better. 6's and 7's i could attract beucase i'm good looking and i have / had **** going for me i could dress, i could talk to women even then . well to be more precise i had 2 issues
1. the girl i wanted / pinned over i could not get. i couldn't get the 8's or the 9's.
2. the 7's when i started to started to date them i put them on a mountain top and they soon acted like the 8's and 9's did for me.
i was the equivalent of a drug addict who didn't use everyday and beucase i binge used i could convince myself i wasn't as bad as everyone else in the room beucase i didn't use everyday hlike everyone else did. when i came here first there were guys who weren't' getting laid at all and i could get laid if everything worked out right so i thought i wasn't as AFC as these guys were.
i eventually came around that i was ****ed up just like everyone else once i got tried of not getting the results i wanted. you got to let people be where they are at.
a lot of the issues you have with the opposite sex shore up the second you develop a backbone. Situations that used to baffle you are now common sense. if i respect myself there is a certian way I'm just not going to be to be treated, rather it means getting the girl or not.
I was that guy. I didn't come here beucase i couldnt' get laid. i probabkt gad sex with honestly..6 different girls in high school. maybe one more maybe one less but around that. from 16-17. and they weren't ugly.
my problem was that I wanted better. 6's and 7's i could attract beucase i'm good looking and i have / had **** going for me i could dress, i could talk to women even then . well to be more precise i had 2 issues
1. the girl i wanted / pinned over i could not get. i couldn't get the 8's or the 9's.
2. the 7's when i started to started to date them i put them on a mountain top and they soon acted like the 8's and 9's did for me.
i was the equivalent of a drug addict who didn't use everyday and beucase i binge used i could convince myself i wasn't as bad as everyone else in the room beucase i didn't use everyday hlike everyone else did. when i came here first there were guys who weren't' getting laid at all and i could get laid if everything worked out right so i thought i wasn't as AFC as these guys were.
i eventually came around that i was ****ed up just like everyone else once i got tried of not getting the results i wanted. you got to let people be where they are at.
