"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Theory on women, Quick Question

FranklinsTower

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Hi, as I learn more about seduction and the pua world, I've noticed that girls i have been interested in usually havent liked me back in that way always in a ljbf way, but girls that I liked as people but were not sexually attracted to, seemed to chase me and try and be sexual with me, and i'm starting to realize that I teased them, didnt pay too much attention to them, and It got me thinking about the cat theory, I probably seemed right out of reach, Does that sound legit? because girls find me attractive just not the ones i like
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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John888

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Of course it works like that. ANd you already know it does. You just learn more by experiencing it first hand. When you're new you radiate that you like a girl, they can pick it up. If you're unavailable they're like wow wtf why can't I get him and they're gonna wanna chase you.

It's after you get some experience you can fake it make it look like you don't want her and you're not needing her.
 
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