NYC is often regarded as one of the best cities in the USA to date for men, from my experience this is true depending on the area of the city you're in.
For example, if you're in the area where excited younger fresh out of college kids in their 20s move to, NYC is arguably one of the best places. But lets think about this crowd for a while:
1 - They are moving to NYC to experience fun life moments.
2 - They are actually looking forward to life after college and what a big awesome city has to offer.
3 - They are trying to spread their wings and experience something they think is even cooler than what they did in college and high school.
Now compare this to an area that sucks for dating.
This area likely has:
1 - A lot of people stuck in their old ways.
2 - A lot of people that just follow the old beaten path of marriage before 25 and kids by 30.
3 - People who are over the "best years of their life", typically the place where people live out life in high school or maybe college and then "settle down".
These can be your suburbs, small towns and even some of the more conservative big cities. Places where everyone has a "I have to grow up" or "I am a grown up now" mentality.
In reality, these people are miserable and just trying to win brownie points by society but a lot of miserable people in an area means a crappy dating life.
How it correlates with women:
You're in NYC, you go out and you run into hot girls in their 20s out of college who are trying to live the "big city life". They want to meet people, their friends want to meet people and the life goes on. Truth is, these girls are excited and have things to look forward to so as a result they are actually open to meeting new people and not so keen on growing up.
Now compare that to life in a more miserable area.
Everyone is trying their best to just fit in and outdo each other. All the women are trying to be as "moral" and "best wife" as possible, by bragging about how they are so living by society's standard by marrying by 25 or getting that one guy all of their friends have their eyes on. Anyone who does not fit their tight moral standard or fails to play social politics to fit in will struggle.
For most guys with game, such areas are miserable, because no one really wants to waste their time with pointless social politics. Guys want to go out there and live, be excited and actually have a great time as they game.
For example, if you're in the area where excited younger fresh out of college kids in their 20s move to, NYC is arguably one of the best places. But lets think about this crowd for a while:
1 - They are moving to NYC to experience fun life moments.
2 - They are actually looking forward to life after college and what a big awesome city has to offer.
3 - They are trying to spread their wings and experience something they think is even cooler than what they did in college and high school.
Now compare this to an area that sucks for dating.
This area likely has:
1 - A lot of people stuck in their old ways.
2 - A lot of people that just follow the old beaten path of marriage before 25 and kids by 30.
3 - People who are over the "best years of their life", typically the place where people live out life in high school or maybe college and then "settle down".
These can be your suburbs, small towns and even some of the more conservative big cities. Places where everyone has a "I have to grow up" or "I am a grown up now" mentality.
In reality, these people are miserable and just trying to win brownie points by society but a lot of miserable people in an area means a crappy dating life.
How it correlates with women:
You're in NYC, you go out and you run into hot girls in their 20s out of college who are trying to live the "big city life". They want to meet people, their friends want to meet people and the life goes on. Truth is, these girls are excited and have things to look forward to so as a result they are actually open to meeting new people and not so keen on growing up.
Now compare that to life in a more miserable area.
Everyone is trying their best to just fit in and outdo each other. All the women are trying to be as "moral" and "best wife" as possible, by bragging about how they are so living by society's standard by marrying by 25 or getting that one guy all of their friends have their eyes on. Anyone who does not fit their tight moral standard or fails to play social politics to fit in will struggle.
For most guys with game, such areas are miserable, because no one really wants to waste their time with pointless social politics. Guys want to go out there and live, be excited and actually have a great time as they game.
