Theories from a late 30s boomer

[Who Dares Win]

I'm not a boomer as nancy pelosi or warrent buffet...it should be obvious but given the average IQ of the new users here better to be clear.

Now do you also recall the fact that teenagers kiss non stop, couples in their early 20s as much as them, those in their late 20s still do it often but less frequently and then people in their 30s slowly do it more and more rarely till people 40+ basically just touching lips and that's all?

I believe the real passion of you have inside you and toward your partner doesnt come from your sex drive or sexual habits, I believe it comes from kissing in terms of spontaneity, frequency and desire to.

I recall that I was used to go clubbing around europe in my 20s and really liked making out with pretty girls, the night was a success even if it didnt lead to some bedroom fun later.

Right now I could jackhammer a woman a find attractive for hours and feeling no need to kiss unless it's one of those few where there is something else beside physical attraction.

It's really hard to understand if it's cause I got old or they got old or both.

Can you relate, what do you believe?

 

[Who Dares Win]

@Mike32ct you lazy bastard I knew you could relate, why dont you bother to add something too?

 

[Mike32ct]

Haha.

I still like kissing a lot. A heated makeout is still hot imo. I miss that part about clubbing or dating the most.

I agree with you that it can be a better test for true passion than sex itself.

But I do (still) think women are typically less into kissing as they age. Here is a thread from the archives….

Are older women less into making out?

IME, a younger female will make out with you until your tongue falls off, but older ones are MUCH less into it. Anyone else notice that or is it just me? I like a hot makeout session, but it seems it's mostly a younger thing... For example, 18 - 24 Will tongue you for days 25...

www.sosuave.net

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Kissing used to mean romance and imminent sex, but with age and the explosion of a promiscuous society you see it as more of a throwaway gesture that sometimes means little more than "leave me alone".

Or a tool to string guys along

 

[Scars]

Making out is still in my bag of foreplay. I'm only 32. It helps get the blood flow circulating.

I've made out with every girl I've ever slept with. I can't think of a single time that I didn't. Even one night stands. I'll even kiss girls goodbye when I know I will NEVER see them again.

I guess I'm the opposite. I can't imagine having sex with a girl without having a heated make out session before putting my p3nis in her. Maybe it's a social construct that I never fully shed. Regardless, I've never seen it negatively hurt my game.. if anything, it's the opposite. Girls tell me I'm a good kisser, so if you're good at something, why not run with it? Also, there are ways to make it more sexual. Like biting her lip, choking her neck or pulling her hair while you do it. These are all things I also do while making out and women love it.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Haha.

I still like kissing a lot. A heated makeout is still hot imo. I miss that part about clubbing or dating the most.

I agree with you that it can be a better test for true passion than sex itself.

But I do (still) think women are typically less into kissing as they age. Here is a thread from the archives….

Are older women less into making out?

IME, a younger female will make out with you until your tongue falls off, but older ones are MUCH less into it. Anyone else notice that or is it just me? I like a hot makeout session, but it seems it's mostly a younger thing... For example, 18 - 24 Will tongue you for days 25...

www.sosuave.net

You were completely spot on in that thread already in 2011, hats off.

Early 10s, we have to find a glitch in the matrix and teleport us back there in the same form and shape we had at that time.

 

[Who Dares Win]

we didnt know how good we had it...

Youth is wasted on young people...

 

[Scars]

You were completely spot on in that thread already in 2011, hats off.

Early 10s, we have to find a glitch in the matrix and teleport us back there in the same form and shape we had at that time.

Mike laying it down in 2011.. he's gonna be the next Pook.

 

[Mike32ct]

Mike laying it down in 2011.. he's gonna be the next Pook.

Nah, I'm not a guru lol; but thank you.

I knew "kissing game" was important early on when my first gf corrected me. She said, "Mike, you need to slow down. You make out like a rattlesnake lol." From then, I fine-tuned it and was reasonably good at it.

Fast forward... Was seeing this Latina briefly earlier this year. (She was close to my age.) She said I was a good kisser. But I did sense that she was taken aback that I was way more into the makeout than trying to undo her pants asap lol.