"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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1. If a tree falls in the forrest and no one is around to hear it does it make a sound?

2. If a bridge is built nine-tenths of the way beautifully but the remaining one-tenth of the bride is crap, is it a good bridge?

3. If you see can see someone from one point can they see you too?

4. Can something ever truly disappear?

5. If you fell into a bottomless pit would you end up on the other side of the world, neglecting the hot toasty earth's core?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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1. If a tree falls in the forrest and no one is around to hear it does it make a sound?

Yes. Sound is not established by the ears. Sound is carried by waves. Even if no one is there, the sound waves must bounce off of matter some how. So, in fact sound is still there.

2. If a bridge is built nine-tenths of the way beautifully but the remaining one-tenth of the bride is crap, is it a good bridge?

Good is subjective. It depends on what good pertains to? Good as in sturdy? Good as in beautiful? Good as in safe? The question is not complete.


3. If you see can see someone from one point can they see you too?

If depends on where they are and the meaning of "can." For example, I "can" eat, but I don't have to. Its a matter of choice based off of location. Can is about choice and ability.

4. Can something ever truly disappear?

Yes. In my mind there is a picture. Now, I stopped thinking about the picture. It is gone. It has dissapeared. It no longer exists.

5. If you fell into a bottomless pit would you end up on the other side of the world, neglecting the hot toasty earth's core?

This one is a little difficult. I would say no, because of the earths gravitation pull and rotation. The center of the earth is pulled on greatly. Either you would be ripped apart or you would pulled extremely hard. Im not too sure about this one though...
 

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1) if a crime is commited and not reported did it happen? yes
2)the bridge will collapse so its a POS
3)not always
4)I think yes
5)no such thing as a bottomless pit unless you are in space
 

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1. If a tree falls in the forrest and no one is around to hear it does it make a sound?
Of course it does.

2. If a bridge is built nine-tenths of the way beautifully but the remaining one-tenth of the bride is crap, is it a good bridge?
It's not a good bridge. If someone 5hits in a jar of mayonnaise, it is still good mayonnaise?

3. If you see can see someone from one point can they see you too?
Not necessarily.

4. Can something ever truly disappear?
Some things can. Even though the smell of a fart can linger, it eventually disappears.

5. If you fell into a bottomless pit would you end up on the other side of the world, neglecting the hot toasty earth's core?
Show me a bottomless pit first, and I'll answer your question.
 

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1. If a tree falls in the forrest and no one is around to hear it does it make a sound?
Technically yes (sound waves), philosophically... questionable. How do you define "sound" from a philosophical standpoint? Is it only sound if it is heard? You could argue that philosophically humans invented the concept of "sound" as to what they can hear (but then again, another human invention, science, has told us that sound is vibrations in the air which would be caused by the tree no matter who was there to hear it).

2. If a bridge is built nine-tenths of the way beautifully but the remaining one-tenth of the bride is crap, is it a good bridge?
Assuming that the bridge's purpose is to let vehicles/people cross safely, then you could say it is not a good bridge as 1/10 of it is built craply.

3. If you see can see someone from one point can they see you too?
You mean like the cameras behind the walls in BigBrother? LOL. Through one of those police interrogation room mirrors? Not necessarily.

4. Can something ever truly disappear?
Ask your physics teacher. Supposedly, everything in the physical world never really disappears, it all goes somewhere. But beyond the physical world (eg. as someone mentioned, a thought in someone's mind), how can you know if anything really disappears or not?

5. If you fell into a bottomless pit would you end up on the other side of the world, neglecting the hot toasty earth's core?
If you end up on the other side of the world, the pit isn't so bottomless is it? Is it possible that with the acceleration and momentum you generated from falling down the pit, you'd come close to coming out the other side, but gravity drags you back in, so you continue rebounding from one end to the other? Doubtful!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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