"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Then what is it that men actually want to see women wearing?

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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wiiliamcooper52 said:
Please share your views with me.
share your views with us first
 

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In private.. NOTHING.

In public... a skirt (for easy access to her goodies) and a tight but casual shirt. High heels are nice. In the winter.. tight jeans or tight sweat pants / yoga pants work.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Maybe it is because I've visited a strip joint or surfed a porno site one too many times, but a hot naked chick wearing only stilettos - and perhaps a waist chain - really gets me to "stand at attention."
 

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wiiliamcooper52 said:
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If you're a guy then why are you asking this question?
 

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Heels, dress, something form fitting or figure hugging. Stockings, tights instead of barelegged women.
 
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