"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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idkruler

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I have made a list of books I recommend:

Anthony Robbins (highly recomended)
Carolyn Miss (self esteem and self confidence)
Sapiens -Suave forum

How to Win Friends & Influence People by Dale Carnegie
Free podcasts by Zig Zigler
Donald Trump
Andrew Carnegie
Dale Carnegie
Warren Buffett
Steve Jobs
Brian tracy
Napoleon hill
Richard Brandson
Jack Welch
Steve Jobs
Jack Canfield
Laura Schlessinger
Dali Lama
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Tell us what you have learned?
 

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I have learned that the advice in the selected books worked for me.
 

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WOW that is some powerful sh!t you just said right there, im not being ignorant either, can i just add 2 things to it
1. expect the unexpected
2. life is a fvcking b!tch
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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