Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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idkruler

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I have made a list of books I recommend:

Anthony Robbins (highly recomended)
Carolyn Miss (self esteem and self confidence)
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How to Win Friends & Influence People by Dale Carnegie
Free podcasts by Zig Zigler
Donald Trump
Andrew Carnegie
Dale Carnegie
Warren Buffett
Steve Jobs
Brian tracy
Napoleon hill
Richard Brandson
Jack Welch
Steve Jobs
Jack Canfield
Laura Schlessinger
Dali Lama
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Tell us what you have learned?
 

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I have learned that the advice in the selected books worked for me.
 

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WOW that is some powerful sh!t you just said right there, im not being ignorant either, can i just add 2 things to it
1. expect the unexpected
2. life is a fvcking b!tch
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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