"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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thee who laughs last, laughs loudest...

Someone Much cooler

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There was this chick i macked a while back, i gave her azz a ride back to her dorms from a local party, we messed around but her roomates where there so we didn't hook up,(anti-slut devices)! A few days later I hit her up and she was like "im surprised you didn't call me", "i was like phones work both ways sweetie." we talked 4 a few mins, then i had to go. I call her a couple times after that and she never returns or picks up. I see her in person and she fronts, actin all snobby and too good to talk. I'm like its like that? God smiled upon me that night, cause low and beho-Later that night, I peep her trying to get in my boys "exclusive list only" party. She wasn't on any list, and was tryin to sweet talk the doorman to get in! I happened to walk by, she saw me and we made eye contact-she gave me a desperate look and screamed out my name, I ignored her, then she told my boy @ the door dat me and her were friends, my boy @ the door came over and asked me if i knew her, I turned my back to her, then disappeared into the crowd around me and continued entertaining the guests. She was sent away.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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haha thats the way to teach her.. or teach who? :p
 

Microphone Fiend

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maybe she thought u were uninterested by waiting so long to call and tried to pique your interest by not returning your calls and acting snobby. How many girls did you make out with inside? Coz u could have brought one in who already made out with you, isolate her and go for the fvck but instead you snubbed her and only got a story to tell on the internet.
 

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Smart move. I'm a man who thinks chivalry is not dead. But only towards lady's not b.itchs. Not that I use that language much mind you. But for her it works. You might've helped some other guy by teaching her that she can't have things when ever she wants them while not giving anything in return.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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good move bro. haha
 

Someone Much cooler

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I go so hard....

Microphone Fiend - I keep it so funky, i keep it real! I drove her home, helped her, I could have left her azz, but i know what its like to stumble home twisted, only to have the boys roll up on you, with the lights goin! She was an ungrateful under age drinker. She is a snob, typical suburb preppy. Her snobbyness turned me off, so at that point i had no use for her. Best believe I got wet that night, jus not by her juices! I'm bout to make a video of the bytches i be with at these parties lol.

The Loacker-Your right, cept for the part about her talking to other people lol! My boys knew the deal when i turned my back, think the "Scarlet Letter;) I love doin that kinda stuff to peeps who dun kno u, ceppin when they want sumthing frum u! :nono: She wasn't tryin to pay for no drinks. there was no point.

t-roy-nah she has it in her head that she can do what she wants to guys. She thinks she is gods gift to man. I have seen her with other dudes. Using there afcness to smoke up they weed, snort up their unstepped coke, drink up their beer, she even proclaimed she would take this guy away from his girl, leave hickeys all over his neck and let him go back to his chick.:down: She did, shes Grimey. I wud call her a ho, but no one fvcks her cause she thinks she is better than everyone, I did get her to feel up and make out with her homegirl that night i took her home but I still should have let her walk.

mostwantedbabyfather- power feels great

Potbelly-yezzir :up:
 

Someone Much cooler

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update i saw her last night "Thirsty Thursday"! She of course was trying to smoke up my home boys weed. I went out side(i don't smoke) and she was out there talking to some guy, i was gonna go back inside and she gave me a nod, and a weak smile! She knows im a somebody now and wants to make peace! i then proceeded to give her a piece of my mind. i asked her "why she was frontin like she was too good to say hi to me", she tried to start her crap that men are evil-blah blah-i was like "listen baby if you date jerks its your fault, your a big girl and at this point in the game you know better. You can't blame anyone but yourself for being dumb!" Her friend said i was right, i em off the porch and down to the street, then I exchanged # wit her friend -they asked me 4 a ride, i was like-"last time i helped a drunkgirl get home safely she though less of me, i don't want that to happen again! Yall best call a cabby!" then i winked and went back inside...i go so hard =)
 
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