The ****Y neg-HIT:: The SIGNS she "WANTS" one.

[blayde]

I1. n dealing with the MOODS of women, ive come to recognize when they almost NEED a neg hit. By the way, Im NOT talking about an attack, but a STRATEGY.

A strategy to deal with the BORED, angry modes most women enter into which are based on selfishness.

2. Theyre almost wearing a sign "Im unhappy with you, bored with you, and you dont challenge me with mystery so I'm going to act like a petulant child"

3. Now, the IGNORANT chump guy goes on the ATTACK at this point. TYPICAL CONVERSATION:
HER: "SInce you were late yesterday, it threw off my day and I wasnt able to excercise. Now I've gained four pounds. Why dont you show up on time?"

TYPICAL CHUMP(gets into ridiculous argument by arguing her already irrational point) "I Was ONLY Ten Minutes LATE"!!!!

4. SEE???? She's drawn you into her mood and youre not in control.

5. BETTER****y)
YOU: "Yeah, but those four pounds only brought you from being an "8" to being a "7". See?? You've shown: HUMOR, wittiness, and Control all in one. Plus you've given her a neg hit but not in an attacking manner.

6. EVEN BETTERthis is a more bold approach cause it seizes the moment)
"Yeah, but I gained four pounds of muscle yesterday at Gold's, so I'll be able to pick you up if you get any bigger"

7. There is some truth to the idea that women want men to be SMARTER than they are, and to put them back in line when their mood overcomes reality. But they dont want an attack.

8. SUPER DUMB people attack. SMART guys use the smirky neg hit in a subtle manner though. You dont TELL her that you are taking control. You SHOW her.

 

[NeverFear]

counter attack

use the neg hit as a counter attack, without it being
an attack.

 

[Jay_VCU]

Re: counter attack

Originally posted by NeverFear
use the neg hit as a counter attack, without it being
an attack.

That makes it a counter. Think of it as tranquilizer instead of a bullet. Banging a corpse isn't cool.

 

[chocolate_rice]

thx for the tip

lol, nice tip

 

[legolas]

Yeah neg-hits have to be smart AND the importance is to stay in control. I was at a party last Saturday and was waiting in line for the bathroom. This hottie comes behind me. Now she's easily a 8 maybe 9 (I don't know her personality but based on looks only)

She wants to cut in line because she's a girl What do I do? Well I find myself a golden opportunity to blast her with some neg-hits. I can't remember what I said exactly, but it included me asking her for money, for a favor, and to do a pull-up in my friend's pull up bar installed at his door-frame. She couldn't even do one. I then told her if she had a overactive bladder disorder she could go first but she had to give me the doctor's recomendation . She was there with her bf, so I didn't try any of the "let's go in together" stuff. There was quite a bit of that going on already

But the poster is right. Staying in control and not being dragged into her mood (ie hypnotized by her) is key to releasing a powerful and funny neg-hit.

Edit: I forgot to mention that during the entire time, I was looking her straight in the eye with a calm face and was completely calm on the insde. I was at the top of my game and no matter how hard she tried she ran out of fuel and was visibly getting annoyed. I was smiling inside. Too bad I didn't make her laugh, it was pure neg-hit after neg-hit.