"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The wrapup to the Bobfuest saga.Lessons learned

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1. never forget you are a rockstar :) apparently i forgot for a week or two and almost lost my head.

2. the power of challenge and even the power of ignoring a girl. This is HUGE. ignoring or not being available for a girl makes them mad, then sad, then jealous and suspicious, then they miss you so much they want your **** in the mouth. haha

3. and never read too much into life. just relax and take it slow. you got nothing to lose and everything to gain.

shout out to all those who helped me. thanks!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Egoist said:
how did the story end though?
oh hahaha It ends ok. I basically told my girl i need time to myself and that her attitude of late really bored me. Not even a day later she was begging me to call her and that she misses me so much. I waited 2 days and lo and behold she was banging at my door to come have sex with me and how truely sorry she was a jerk and didnt realize. I told her ok and sexed the hell out of her then sent her home with a slap on the ass and the promise to call her in a few days :)
 
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