"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The worst thing you can do in life is let a woman make decisions for you

Chamber36

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It's what made everything go downhill for me.

Women are fvcked up in their assumptions because they watch too much 'Kardiashians' (and btw that new show "girls" on HBO is really fvcked up.)

I'm talking about a girl I let move in with me - a female roommate I had. I knew her from my social circle. I had a good friend living in another room at the time. I think she's the reason he left, but that doesn't bother me so much.

She would claim to want the front door locked every night - even though she had a lock on her bedroom, where she and all her stuff were. The other guy was sleeping attic and had no bathroom there. So in the morning he would knock on the door while we were sleeping and couldn't get in if he left his keys inside.

Me being cool didn't want to entertain her urge for emotional roller coasters, so a lot of the time I let her have her way if it didn't really affect me too much. She would for example send me crappy little text messages with requests and complaints. Any right she had as a tenant I had to respect. B*tch was acting like a lawyer and crap while she was livin with me.

Man what a b*tch. I'm not one to really hold grudges but this woman really incited some fvcked up **** in me.

Anyway, she's gone now, and I just wanted to express my relief, and I hope some noobs can learn from it.

Make sure you are your own boss at all times. If you have an argument with your dude friends don't worry about it. But with women, there is no grey area. These women will take any fvcking territory they can get, and if they lose it, they will burn it to the ground before you can make use of it. At least men have a certain respect for each other's sovereignty.

Even if you drive a pvssy guy in the corner and he gives you b*tch remarks, that's a different story.

I'm sure most of you guys are pvssies, and I'm sure some of you guys think I'm a pvssy. But we can't all be Generals and Admirals. I dont give a fvck what you think anyway. I don't have to explain myself to none of you.

I am working my fvcking way up the ladder. If there's one trait an alpha male has it's that he never gives up no matter what mistakes he's made in the past. So keep on treading forward soldiers.

Don't let anything scare you. Don't worry what people think - don't even worry what YOU think. It doesn't matter as long as you don't get caught up in bullsh*t situations. Stay fvcking safe. Be fvcking careful. Take good care of yourselves, and don't give up on yourselves, your dreams, your situations, whatever.

One thing I can tell you is that only you can steer your own ship. Steer it away from glaciers.

Don't take life too fvcking seriously, because it's fvcking hard already for a lot of people. Just take it easy and work hard so you have no excuses.

Excuse my rant btw, all who don't give a fvck. I am picking up the pieces where I left off. Let me get my sea legs.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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trent_afc

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Chamber36 said:
I'm sure most of you guys are pvssies, and I'm sure some of you guys think I'm a pvssy. But we can't all be Generals and Admirals. I dont give a fvck what you think anyway. I don't have to explain myself to none of you.
lol. Nice rant. Carry on! :up:
 

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Good luck dude. I like the message.

I know this goes against what "society" teaches but I can honestly say I've never looked back on my life and regretted the times I was selfish. The parts I regret are the parts where I screwed myself to benefit someone else.

True story.

As you might have guessed I don't do that anymore. I have no problem helping others. Sh!t that's half the reason I post here. But I will NEVER help others at my own expense. Sometimes this makes me come off as a douche bag. Don't care.

I have much more control, power and dignity in my relationships now than in my younger days simply because I take care of myself FIRST. This goes with women too. Men are always so quick to offer women as much as possible. You need to worry more about what a woman gives you and less about what you give her. Always live ON YOUR OWN TERMS. :up:
 

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Agree, nice rant... but get in the habit of LOCKING THE DOOR TO YOUR HOUSE AT NIGHT... no matter where you live. Your friend in the attic can remember his keys or PISS OUTSIDE. The girl roommate is right on this, you are wrong, and having basic common sense is not the same as letting a woman make decisions for you.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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